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Do you ever wish you had no sexual desires or need?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by joem351, Mar 10, 2020.

  1. Mar 10, 2020 #1
    joem351

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    Not having to deal with pursing women or the temptation for porn and masturbation? No need/want for sexual release.
     
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    Absolutely not. I prefer the good fight than accepting an easy way out that sacrifices a big part of me.
     
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  3. Mar 10, 2020 #3
    joem351

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    I hate it. Maybe it’s because the women I dated the juice wasn’t worth the squeeze. Being broke and ugly doesn’t help.
     
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    Moving towards a more integrated, healthy, shame-free conception of myself, where sexuality is a source of joy and provides fuel for other aspects of my life. So no, I would never want to remove that desire and energy.
     
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  5. Mar 10, 2020 #5
    joem351

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    To me it’s dangled in my face “you will never get this na na na na na you will never get this” and people who never get it especially men are shamed. There was a whole movie about it; The 40 Year Old Virgin. I kind of hate that movie. I was bullied by some kids in high school comparing me to Steve Carell’s character. I was 16! One of them even brought a playboy picture to school telling me not to be afraid. I have a scar on my face that reminds daily of these events
     
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    Sorry to hear that man. School's a load of shit in most ways I think.

    That movie is actually kind of balanced when you watch it. At one point one of the other characters thinks Carell has the right idea staying away from women. I'm not red-pill or anything but there are disadvantages to being with women, such as frequent arguments etc.

    Sex is mainly about procreation anyway. And abstaining has its benefits.
     
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  7. Mar 11, 2020 #7
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    There’s a big difference between healthy libido and the crappy obsession we have.

    we have addiction to lust, and NOT a “high sex drive”

    It might be easy to muddle the two up IF YOU ARE STLL ADDICTED. Once you are free, the difference is clear and you will not fear having the worlds highest sex drive
     
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  8. Mar 11, 2020 #8
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    Search for a psychotherapist.
    I've a friend with a genetic problem , he has crooked bones , strange postures, very short .
    He has lost weight, does sports , increased self esteem.
    He's a cocky kickass ,I didn't think he could get a girl, but now he has one.
     
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  9. Mar 11, 2020 #9
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    Oh yeah. I wish those thoughts wouldn’t exist at all.
    I want to be like when I was 10. Amazed by everything and excited by life without any sexual thoughts.
     
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  10. Mar 11, 2020 #10
    joem351

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    I can’t afford therapy. I just wish I didn’t have sexual desire. Life would be easier and less disappointing. I wouldn’t think about my looks, talents (or lack there of), or how much money is in my bank account
     
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  11. Mar 11, 2020 #11
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    Good insight.
     
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  12. Mar 11, 2020 #12
    Nucleus

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    What about Sexaholics Anonymous?
     
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  13. Mar 11, 2020 #13
    joem351

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    I don’t know if I would call myself an addict. I work 7 days a week, I never looked up/never look up anything naughty at work. When I was doing my thing it was once 3-4 times a week. When I was with someone it never interfered. I just think damn life would be nicer if there was no basic urge.
     
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    joem351

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    I’d also like to add today is day 15
     
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  15. Mar 11, 2020 #15
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    I wish I had no sexual desire because it's very difficult to meet a potential partner in person especially in this day and age where technology is concerned resulting in women who are ultra picky about what they want in a partner, some who are now single mothers still choosing the 'right' man. The equality debate carries on forever.. when will women understand that the idea of equality is just a fiction of the mind and everyone is equal already! Men instantly get shot down if they are not tall enough etc. so yeah I wish I had no sexual desire.
     
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