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Looking for prostitutes online

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by madniel91, Mar 13, 2020.

  1. madniel91

    madniel91 Fapstronaut

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    Before I stopped PM I was starting to visit erotic ad sites more and more often. It turned me on to watch the girl's pictures and to read what services they were offering.

    It is one of the reason why I joined NoFap. I used to spend hours on these websites and the more I was watching, the more I considered to book their services.

    What do you think, do you consider this kind of stuff as porn? In my opinion, I am totally going to stop browsing them.
     
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  2. Kligor

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    Yes buddy,stop it right now,because of you.In my opinion psubs is dangerous too,no sex stories,no watching sexy pictures,nothing what can trigger you.All of that gives you dopamine rush,slow down recovery and can lead to potential full blown relapse.
    Stay strong and keep pushing buddy!
     
  3. madniel91

    madniel91 Fapstronaut

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    You are right, sex stories are very dangerous because they can start an escalating spiral, I will stop reading them too.
     
  4. I went through all of this myself. Sex stories and looking at pics are just things that gives you a dopamine release and leave you craving more. Also, I'm a little ashamed to admit it, but last year I actually did cave and call an escort. I'm not going to lie, it felt great, but after she left I relapsed on PMO because of the chaser effect several times.

    My advice now: It all has to go! No peaking, no looking, no fantasizing, nothing. Your addiction isn't to PMO, it's to lust.

    Oh and btw, it may not all be as bad as porn, but if it gives you a dopamine release, it's still slowing your progress.

    I'm really getting tired of letting my lesser, carnal urges control me like some kind of ape. Replace those sex stories with nofap success stories or go find something else to do.
     
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  5. T-1000

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    I've had this issue too, I have been to brothels before but never hired a private escort, I always find myself looking at them with the thought of hiring one, but I just end up jacking off to the thought of it...a lot of the time it would just escalate to porn. You just have to get rid of it all, I don't think seeing escorts sporadically is anything to be shamed about but if you have a porn addiction, it may lead to sex addiction which isn't all that much different.
     
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  6. elvagoazul

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    I also have these problems. I didn't watch porn in yhe last months. But now, I am constantly looking for prostitutes. I spend a lot of money in that.

    All of you are right, we should avoid any content wich arouses ourselves, because it will be escalating over time. I'm still in the struggle, thanks for sharing your advices.

    (Sorry if I did mistakes, English is not my native language)
     
  7. Is it pornography? Seeing pics and reading services, hm. I‘d say yes. It‘s definitely addictive, btdt. Could get myself out if this addiction, still struggling and lapsing but I see myself out.
     
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  8. I was into massages with happy endings, but I had found that contemplating and planning how to get them was more exciting than the actual "rub & tug" itself, which left me feeling kind of dirty and ashamed. So one of my favorite types of porn was exactly what you are doing: looking at the ads and fantasizing about them. But it is definitely porn, and the most dangerous kind, because it has the biggest effect on you. So I agree with the advice that the others gave you above: you have to cut it out entirely. Good luck!
     
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  9. Tempest12

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    I can relate also. The fantasies and desires can be scary, especially if it leads to acting upon them while in a relationship.
     
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  10. Priceless

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    I went through this, when I stopped watching porn, I turned to do doing this. I'd do it for hours and sometimes I would go and see the women as well. I convinced myself that it wasn't the same as porn because at least I actually had a chance of getting with the women, but it's best to cut all of it off because you still get the same high you get from porn.
     
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  11. INeedToGetBetter

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    I have wasted thousands upon thousands of dollars on escorts. Most were scams and some were real but they were all terrible. I have committed many filthy deeds. Looking at escorts, sex stories, it all has to go. I pray that I can recover and redeem my dignity and honor and finances. If you are feeling the temptations, fight against them and feel free to share your struggles with us since we are all here in this recovery journey together.
     
  12. cosinusX

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    Same here. I spend hours looking for escorts on their websites. I visited a couple of them but was never able to have sex because of ED. This was a total waste..
     
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  13. madniel91

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    That sounds horrible.. did you have to pay even if you did not have sex?
     
  14. cosinusX

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    Yes i had to pay the full price
     

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