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Help post....please help me and i want to live

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Badol, Mar 15, 2020.

  1. Mar 15, 2020 #1
    Badol

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    Help post....Please help me and i want to live

    I was porn addict about 5 years.I started my journey in 2015 to 2019.In 2018-2019 i was regular seeing porn about 5 or 6 hour per day.Now i was in a nofap period in 13 days.Last 1 years i generated myself something that make me do to suicide.I cant know what i do.Few years ago i was very helpful boy,fun with man,talk people easily,convince any man easily.But now days i cant talk any people easily
    when i talk with them my eyes are ogling to looking at their boobs,throat and their body-parts.When my eyes noticed its i cant talk and think of this body parts and fear they didn't look me or not.
    When i go to walk for walk my eyes are ogling automatically and seeing man,woman boobs and throat.I was a first bancher student now days i cant sit on my first banch because of my eyes are ogling.I cant talk in fornt of woman. I fear and sweat someone look or not.
    I cant controll my mind easily and generated many negetive thought in my mind.
    Now i realized how was dangerous porn in my life.Now I want to live,want to fun with people and want to talk with people that i did in past days.I want to turn back my past days.Please give me some suggestion to turn back my past.
     
    Badol, Mar 15, 2020
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  2. Mar 15, 2020 #2
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    You need to quit watching porn and masturbating. These things are reversible, but it will take time and a lot of effort. It's best to have Jesus in your corner as well.
     
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  3. Mar 15, 2020 #3
    Immature

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    Stop watching porn. Do whatever that takes.
     
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  4. Mar 20, 2020 #4
    goodnice 2.0

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    You can get it all back if you quit pmo
     
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  5. Mar 26, 2020 #5
    Badol

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    Sir what i do for my ogling problem i cant control myself
     
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  6. Mar 26, 2020 #6
    Rustcan45

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    Porn doesn't have this effect on people. It may make you more anxious and less assertive but this sounds extreme. You need to slow down your breathing and empty your head. You're driving yourself nuts; not porn. If you focus on not staring you will fucking stare more often but even if you do get caught staring at some girls tits so what?
     
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  7. Mar 26, 2020 #7
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    LOWER YOUR GAZE.TAKE A MOMENT AND HAVE A MATURED CONVERSATION WITH YOURSELF.SPEND TIME WITH YOUR GOOD FRIENDS ,PARENTS AND PEOPLE YOU TRUST.
    WHEN YOU FEEL BAD SOMETIMES,JUST THINK OF IT AS A TRAILER OF WHAT TRULY AWAITS ON THE OTHER SIDE
     
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  8. Mar 26, 2020 #8
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    This.
     
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  10. Mar 26, 2020 #10
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    Well, this forum doesn't like what I have to say about this. Lol but if you're asking....

    The reason you can't control yourself is because we are not fully capable of ridding our lives of sin. Not on our own. If you read the stories in the Bible, it shows time and time again the fact that without God, we always fail in overcoming sin. You need Jesus, my friend. You can't do it all without him.

    21But now, apart from the law, the righteousness of God has been revealed, as attested by the Law and the Prophets. 22And this righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no distinction, 23for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24and are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.
    Romans 23

    If you're unwilling to consider that, I so pray you change your mind, but I would reccomend some other advice as well: shut down sexual thoughts as soon as you have them. Do. Not. Linger. Not even for a minute. You have a sexual thought, you say "NOPE," and you move your mind along to something else.

    If you do that consistently, urges will come far less frequently.
     
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