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Should I relapse????

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Prince6543, Feb 13, 2020.

  1. Prince6543

    Prince6543 Fapstronaut

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    Ok I started nofap on 5th January and here is how it went so far.
    Start. Relapsed
    5th Jan. 25th Jan
    25th Jan. 31st Jan
    31st Jan. 05th Feb
    So its its been 1 week again.. I have a foot fetish and femdom fetish. And I am getting a strong urge to try 2 things.
    1. Cum straight into my mouth
    2. Cum in floor and lick it like a slave.
    Do you think I should relapse?
    My argument is this urge might get stronger with time. And it has been just 1 week so I can easily start again.. But if i do so i will be sad and depressed for 3 days and the other 2 days i will fall sick. So should I go for it or should i continue nofap ?
     
  2. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    Hi buddy,i have both foot fetish and femdom addiction(but my femdom is not desire to be slave,very similar but little different)i understand what you talking about complete.But don't do that,remember why you started.
    Continue nofap buddy there is nothing to gain if you relapse,but i get it urge is urge and curious is curious.
    Sometimes i get wonder what new crap femdom have recorded but i just ignore empty desire.
     
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  3. ThomasTheCat

    ThomasTheCat Fapstronaut

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    Wtf why are you being so explicit???
     
  4. PLZ DONT DO IT. YOU ARE HUMAN BEING, DON'T LOSE YOUR DIGNITY BECAUSE OF THIS SHIT!!! JUST WAIT AND YOU WILL DEFEAT IT. NEEDS TIME TO WIN. ONLY YOU CHOOSE, EVERY DECISION YOU MADE IN LIFE IS UPON YOUR SHOULDERS. DONT DO IT.
     
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  5. Your addicted brain is looking for an excuse to relapse, and it's making an argument that seems logical to you: "… this urge might get stronger with time. … it has been just 1 week so I can easily start again. … if i do so i will be sad and depressed for 3 days and the other 2 days i will fall sick."

    It sounds logical, right?

    But it's not logic. It's only a series of excuses to relapse.

    Keep strong, young man. The urges do increase at first, but eventually they will reduce. The fetishes will also start to fade with time.

    Think of your addiction — and its fetishes — as a monster inside you. The monster is getting hungry now, so it's making itself heard! It will try pleading; nonsense logic; temper tantrums; getting you to feel sorry for it; and any other trick that it can think of. Realise that the monster is in your head, and so it knows you better than you know yourself — it will find ways to tempt you!

    What would help you most: listen to the monster and succumb to its tempting, or ignore its siren song and let it starve to death?

    My question for you is:

    Will you continue to feed the monster so that it gets stronger and stronger?
    Or will you ignore the monster until it gets weak with hunger and eventually starves to death?

    Keep at it, and don't end up with a lifelong addiction like us old people!
     
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  6. Prince6543

    Prince6543 Fapstronaut

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    Your profile + your reply made my day:D
     
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  7. BecomeMaster

    BecomeMaster Fapstronaut

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    Uh, no. Heh. C'mon dude, each time you have a longer streak, your body can handle the urges better. Just don't do it.

    And that's gross. Isn't there a hidden text/spoiler tag that you can use?
     

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