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advice for ending reboot

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by bassman123, Mar 17, 2020.

  1. Mar 17, 2020 #1
    bassman123

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    three weeks into what i was thinking would be a month reboot. Still working on regaining wife's trust, but we are talking a lot during this "no work" time and she comes to therapy with me sometimes so its going well. the reboot idea took a little bit of convincing and she has been asking me about how i want to "come out" of rebooting. i have honestly not put a lot of thought into it, mostly because i feel like its been a time for me to make a shift. its got me thinking, and i thought id throw the question out there. any stories? slow? fast? dive right in?
     
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  2. Mar 18, 2020 #2
    kropo82

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    What type of reboot are you doing, easy (no porn), normal (no porn and no masturbation), or hard (no porn, no masturbation, and no orgasms)?
     
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  3. Mar 18, 2020 #3
    bassman123

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    PMO. I didnt change it in my forum signature tag.
     
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  4. Mar 18, 2020 #4
    Nicko Stretch

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    What does 'coming out of reboot' feel like it should look to you? What do you want to go back to?
     
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  5. Mar 19, 2020 #5
    kropo82

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    Then see how you both feel after 90 days. If I were you I would then swap to normal mode (PM) and keep that going forever, or if you would rather easy mode (P). If you found the 90 day hard mode (PMO) reboot beneficial you could always make it a semi-regular thing, perhaps annually?
     
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