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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Mar 20, 2020.

  1. Hi guyzz so back here again i have been on long streaks before its like now i hve lost motivation for indulging in NoFap but i so want to
    Its getting to hard for me med school life can be really tiring and stressful but this time i not only want to beat porn n fapping but improve as a person leave certain habits behind so that i can embrace the world in much better way
     
  2. Fighter1110

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    Keep going!
    Start building habits. It won't be easy at the beginning but over the time this will be easier and easier. Keep yourself busy but you can take limited breaks by organizing your time and disciplining. When you achieve something , don't let your brain stop you from continuing it, your brain may make you happy with yourself and convince you to take long breaks and may make excuses. Just keep going and stick to your plans.
    Good luck!!
     
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  3. Day 1
    Overthinking-little bit
    Urges-there but that strong
    Sleep cycle -disturbed
    Fantasies-lot
    Exercise-little bit dance
    Study - none
    Spend time family -done
    Good day ❣️
    Had lot of fun enjoyed lot
    Spend my free time cooking helping divert my mind a bit sleep cycle hella disturbed need to work on that secretion are a bit troubling other than that everything is going good
     
  4. Damn ....... I relapsed idk may because of fantasizing i had erotic dream because of which i relapsed ...... I feel like shit feel worthless idk how to continue further ...... Because it is becoming really challenging its its i have lost all progress I've made ....,.......
    But im too determined as hell to break this up all i can see is that first i need to stop fantasies my nain enemy........ Hope you really help n support ne during this crucial time
     
  5. Wolfgirl

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    You got this man. Do your best to avoid triggers and challenge yourself to go longer than you did. Have confidence that you can best your addiction! You got this!

    btw I call everyone “man” not just men
     
  6. Fighter1110

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    Keep going. Relapse is a part of recovering. Write down your triggers and read them everyday. From relapsing, you should know that fantasizing is one of your triggers, which your brain uses to make you fall in the trap. So avoid fantasizing and keep yourself busy as much as you can. Good luck, it's worth it.
     
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  7. Pmo is the toughest addiction I have ever encountered. If it's not looking at porn is looking at real woman. If that's not the case is fantasizing and looking at porn substitutes. Dam theres no escaping lust is all around me. I had a few streaks but I always fall back. I been here since 2017 and I thought I had it figured out, and like a wave it takes over me again. Been pmo addict for 25 years now, and it just seems impossible to quit. I dont know too many here on NoFap that have figured it out yet, but is nice to know I am not alone in the struggle. Keep trying dont give up.
     
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  8. You need all the energy you can get especially when you attend medical career cuz we all know it can be very stressful and you must do nofap or you will suffer
     
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  9. thank god we're not alone in this... i really think that this comunnity is one of the best things happening in the world right now
     
  10. True i can soo feel u .....same is with me tooo
     
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  11. I know that mainly the reason i wanna give up fapping wasting energy on random shit i soo need to get my life together as it has lately been a mess and quarantine time is so not helping.....
     
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  12. Thnk for helping really appreciate your support
     
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  13. Thnks for support u are giving me really means a lot
     
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  14. Day - 1 ...... Hard start
    Urges - tend to get stronger in night ....
    Fantasizing- little
    Overthinking- ... Much improvement than before
    Study - naah.... So wanna take a break after papers but gonna start soon
    Spend time with family n frnds - done ..... Spend quality time with ma n pa .... Talked to frnds also ..
    Exercise- none ..... Sadly
    Healthy eating - tried my best .... Atleast kept calories intake in control
    Sleep cycle - well trying sleep early hope it works out
    Good day
    Watched web series all day i know this quarantine time is gona be hard but
    ....... Im not the one to loose something so easily ...... I try one best to complete every challenge life offer so im trying ..... Even though its too different n difficult ...
    Secretion n urges were literally going out of hand ..... When bit my lips so because of pain i forget about urges other thn that everything is good
     
  15. The first few days are always the hardest, just gotta stay away from anything that will trigger you. I know is easier said than done, but I tend to sabotage myself by looking at one thing and it leads to more and more things. I'm on day zero myself, had a tough 7 days but I'm not giving in to pmo without a fight. Hope you beat this addiction for good.
     
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  16. True jst same happened with me i hving extreme urges now
     
  17. Day 2 -feeling i cant go beyond this
    Urges -are killing me right now stronger during night
    Fantasizing -, none
    Exercise-none
    Sleep cycle - disturbed slept alot
    Spend time with family n frnds - done
    Study - none seriously need to figure this out
    Exercise-none
    Eating healthy, - not really
    Over-all a good day but now urges are going out of control idk what to do




    Damnnn nothing is helpful at this point
     
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  18. Damn it happened i rekapsed damnn
     
  19. It happens, get back up and try again.
     
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  20. Im sure you'll get back on track! :emoji_punch:
    What was the specific trigger? You should try eliminate it
     
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