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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Rojas202, Mar 22, 2020.

  1. Rojas202

    Rojas202 Fapstronaut

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    Guys I just watched porn! I masturbated but I did not ejaculated (because I think If I do not then is not relapsed).
    Should I guys reset the counter ?
    I'm Feeling bad :( guys. It had been 10 days without POM ;(
    Stop watching porn and continue with the counter or reset it ?
     
  2. henryhill

    henryhill Fapstronaut

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    This is a tough one that always gets me... though I’d say if your goal is to avoid pmo and you did one of the things you need to reset. But remember that it was better to not ejaculate than if you had gone all the way.

    The challenge then is avoiding the trap of “well I reset now so I might as well go all the way”. Don’t do it. It’s not worth it.

    Treat it as a reset not a full relapse perhaps but that is still a reset of your goals. I think it will be better in the long term. You got this, ten days is nothing to scoff at so look at the victory you’ve achieved and remember you want to achieve even more next time.

    Hope that helps and stay strong even with a bit of a set back.
     
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