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Need Motivation

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Mar 24, 2020.

  1. Messed up again...I keep doing more, yet finding ways around it all. I need to block a girls number because she will not block my number and I will keep going back to her to buy nudes. I need help getting rid of her number, as my only chance is to block her number in such a way that I cannot unblock it.

    It has to stop, brothers. Please pray for me and ask God to give me what I need to beat this: discipline, hard times, and support.
     
  2. Fighter1110

    Fighter1110 Fapstronaut

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    I have a problem close to yours but with a model I always search for her. I posted a thread about my decisions
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/i-will-destroy-the-past-thats-enough.270901/

    So you should block her, then convince your brain you kicked her out of your mind. You should say to your brain : "I have forgotten her. I will not ever remember her name. I will not miss her because I have already forgotten her name!".
    She is similar to a pornstar and you should forget anything related to porn. Only think about your new life and work hard for it. Learn new skills. Read books and study (This helped me so much in these 3 days I spent without remembering the model after I decided my decisions). Workout in the home because of the quarantine and install a program for working out. Eat healthy to gain muscles after exercising. You have many things you can do but stay away from your bed. Your bed is a trigger and makes you lazy, so use it when you sleep only.
    Good luck bro. The key is making decisions. Don't be as you were before relapsing. You should make strict decisions like "I will not ever chat to her again. I don't know her name!!!. My brain is rebooting, so I shouldn't see anything like porn. I have a self control". It's my day 4 without PMOing. I feel happy. Insha'Allah we will succeed on NoFap. Remember the key is deciding and controlling your brain.
     
  3. Fighter1110

    Fighter1110 Fapstronaut

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    Forget your period of life you had with porn or with this girl. Treat with yourself as you are a new person who doesn't know what porn is and doesn't know girls send nudes. Treat with yourself as a clean person that doesn't fap and doesn't let his brain control him. This will help you absolutely but put on your mind that You can't break the rules! You should know that fapping gives you a pleasure for only seconds and then a pain, but controlling your urges for seconds or minutes everyday gives you a pleasure for your whole life.
     
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  4. Look at this perspective: detachment doesn't mean you own nothing it means nothing owns you. Also motivation is garbage. You can be motivated now, but tomorrow that motivation will be gone and u will fall back. U need to be driven, close to being obsessed with something. Try to find your gift man.If u don't need an alarm clock to wake up then you will get there. Find something to live for, doesn't matter what.
     
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