PLEASE HELP ME

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by JuicyFruit12, May 20, 2015.

  1. JuicyFruit12

    JuicyFruit12 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello. I recently found out about this website thru a friend. I am in a desperate situation i dont know who to turn to. Who am i supposed to tell that I Masturbate and watch Pornography. Its almost like a biological clock. It goes off every week sometime two to three times a day. I have masturbated just about everywhere. Library, hospital, bus, friends and families houses, Before i do it anywhere else like in school. I need this to STOP. Lesbian pornography is a major turn on for me. Its all i watch literally.. Recently i found new fetishes like Analingus, and MILF LESBIANS. Guys I have tried so hard to quit really. But some how every time i promise myself to quit i go at it again. This is the first time i am telling anyone. I dont wanna live with a guilt every single day. I have been doing this since i was about 12, now i am 20. Every time i think about it i cant believe i have been doing this shameful act. Please help me. Please reboot me. I am ready to take the next step to quit!
     
  2. BabyAssBitch

    BabyAssBitch Fapstronaut

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    I know its hard man but keep trying okay. Take that guys advice even ^ and do what you can. Talk to your close friends for support, being vulnerable brings people together and I'm sure maybe even some of your friends do it too. For me, my friends know and I talked to them about it a few times.
     
  3. arpyegap

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    For me, reading the forums and knowing that you are not alone was a huge help. There is a ton of good information on this site and others about what happens to your brain. Keep strong, read the forum and know that you are not alone. No matter what you fantasize about or fight with, there is probably someone on here who has experienced something similar.
     
  4. JuicyFruit12

    JuicyFruit12 New Fapstronaut

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    So its been a week since i last Masturbated to pornography.. However today i broke that streak i went ahead and did it three times today. After my third time i wanted to do it again. God i broke this rule. I will never quit, Its literally etched in my mind. I will never stop. I really want to end it.
     
  5. You can't just quit by will-power my friend. It wouldn't be much of a challenge if you could. But there are tons of tips and techniques and you're gonna have to roll up your sleeves and get to work
     
  6. Aghast

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    It is very common to binge after going for a stretch with no PMO. Its pretty much the best feeling in the world to watch some P after a few weeks without. However i'm sure you know binging on P burns up all of your dopamine and leaves you feeling empty and drained of life.

    The problem with quitting is that there is no immediate consequence to watching P. If there was a gun pointed at you there is no way you'd even consider watching it. For me what has worked rather well this time around, better than most other things is creating an unavoidable direct consequence. I have to get a tattoo on my back saying "I failed the challenge" if I watch any porn or masterbate in 30 days. I am on day 11 right now and have absolutely no intention to break because the consequence is too severe.

    I tell people on here that I have made the challenge and I think about it every day so that I can't just forget the vow I made. Also, I made the vow with someone else on the forum. So far so good and I am definitely already reaping the benefits of no PMO already.
     
  7. Buzzltyr

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    A week is good. Congratulations. Now it is time to aim to break that record. Maybe next time you will do 10, 20 days, a month or even a year....who knows? But you have to pick yourself up and start building your streak up again. Nobody said this is easy but it is not going to get easy if you do not train for it like you are training for a marathon. There are lots of helpful posts on this board that can suggest tips and tricks. Read up on those posts and pick what helps you....you may have to go through some trial and error to see what works for you.
     

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