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2 years of nofap - but sex dream causes fatigues - I need help.

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by chuyengiabip, Apr 6, 2020.

  1. chuyengiabip

    chuyengiabip Fapstronaut

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    Hello family,
    I am 31 yo, a business man.
    In the past, it was 10 years that I was addictive to porn.
    Today is almost my 2 years of nofap and I just found this forum very accidentally.
    I have to say that things are changing to my life. I find it much meaningful and feel thankful for everything. I am now starting almost everyday with full of energy and sharp mind. However, this is the problem that often destroys my day:
    In the early morning, 4AM-6AM, I often have sex dream. In the dream it is not fully "having sex", it can be an nudity image, or in a condition that I am going to have sex. I still don't ejaculate or want to ejaculate (This is not a wet dream)
    Right at that time, my brain feels like losing energy quickly. It's like something drains my brain energy. I quickly feel fatigue and brain foggy. The symptoms is 100% like after watching porn & martubation.
    I feel stucked recently because It occurs very often. I would appreciate if there's any help.
    Thank you so much!
     
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  2. redemption7

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    Do you have a girlfriend or wife, by any chance? It could be that you are in some sort of withdrawal from needed sexual release. It would be best if you had a significant other and did not have to masturbate. Under no circumstances should porn ever be involved, of course.
     
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  3. Maybe you let some thoughts in from time to time? Maybe you have to work with many attractive women? It's hard to guess, really, and I can't tell. However, I happen to have stronger urges very rarely and I'm also two years clean. They're irritating, but I try to avoid them as soon as they appear. Then, I'm at peace again and nothing bothers me for some time.
    So, my advice is... be patient. You're already a winner.
     
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  4. All I can do share what I do against that problem. I have books, diary, sudoku paper prepared on my desk with lamp. If I woke up I get out of bed, and starte reading aloud, writing my diary(0,5-1 a4 pages), or playing sudoku. If I do well I can fall in sleep in 20-30 minutes, without excitment. I wear blue light blocking glasses meanwhile.

    Avoiding screens, food late in day helps too. I dont eat meat for dinners.

    Can you share some details about your dreams? Are there water, lakes, etc. in your dreams?
     
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  5. Lion's Roar

    Lion's Roar Fapstronaut

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    Try this:





    This is Maha Karuna Dharani, it's able to help you recover from health problems due to masturbation.

    Chant it at least 5 times per day without any distraction. (Or 30~45 minutes per day)


    You MUST vow to abandon all PMO and sexual misconduct FOREVER. And make it clear that sex is just to bear childrens. Please abandon excessive desire of women.


    Do good deeds. Help other people. Protect environment and animals.


    Do all good things.

    Abandon all evil.

    https://www.buddhaviews.com/Learning_Dhamma/dasa_kusala.htm
     
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  6. MrYang29

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    bro, i also experienced an inevitable wet dream. i think that's outside of our control, and i'm fully aware, that a demonic entity can trigger that dream to milking our seed. so when it comes to a demonic entity, we need Holy Spirit to fight with us, and we ask that by praying in Jesus name. hope my answer give you a clarity my bro.
     
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  7. I listen one person in one video in youtube say that he this type of dreams... and for him it help dont go sleep with bladder full so try to pee before you go to bed. Other thing he note was one medication he takes to sleep i think so some medications that is to brain can incrase this type of stuff but carefull dont do this last one if you dont talk with your doctor first or you reallly know what you are doing. I listen to that small drugs like weed can incrase this stuff...
    And you can allways pray to your guardian angel before you go bed to asking protection. :)
     
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  8. chuyengiabip

    chuyengiabip Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for your share. I think it really helps.
    About my dream, I often dream that I prepare to have sex, or a nudity image of someone. Very quickly after the dream appears, I feel my brain collapsed.
    I very appreciate if you give me more ideas. Thank you, bro.
     
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  9. chuyengiabip

    chuyengiabip Fapstronaut

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    Thank you, I believe mediation can help. I am doing it but not regularly. I am trying to start again, thank you bro.
     
  10. chuyengiabip

    chuyengiabip Fapstronaut

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    I wish I have had any belief but I dont. I think it helps too and I will find a belief for myself, thank bro.
     
  11. chuyengiabip

    chuyengiabip Fapstronaut

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    Thank you! I will try this.
     
  12. chuyengiabip

    chuyengiabip Fapstronaut

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    Thank you bro. Yes, I think Im lacking of sex.
     
  13. Stp890

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    Hello brother,that one is a sign of a successfully occuring reboot,and is a sign that you have not rewired to natural partnered sex,you need to start rewiring,i.e try to have regular sex for two month and notice any observable changes,
    So give it a try
    Stp890
     
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  14. That will not help, it will just cause him maybe altered state of mind, that even dangerous. I advice anyone to stay away from anything that cause trance like state. Yea it will feel good, but you will pay the cost.

    Just saying in one post you said you dont have belief, meanwhile in the other post you say "yes i will try that" for a highly religious technique. Lol Or do you really think chanting some religous buddhism things will help on you?
     

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