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45 days in with insane sexual urges and no motivation.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Strekoza, May 22, 2015.

  1. May 22, 2015 #1
    Strekoza

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    So far I am at day 45 and had my 5th wet dream during this reboot. The first four were in a pattern of every other day after day 21 and I didn't feel like they had a negative impact on me. This was the first times in my life experiencing them and after getting them I had a much easier time abstaining because I had some kind of release. Eventually they disappeared and around day 38 I started feeling extremely horny and lonely, so I was constantly looking at girls on apps and dating sites, I know this is kind of like cheating and I was so hoping to have a wet dream, thinking the urges will just disappear. However, today my wish came true... I woke up once just as I was ejaculating and stopped myself before it happened in the dream because I was afraid to get her pregnant, LOL. So I went back to sleep and had another wet dream soon after as I was waking up. This time I had all the bad symptoms, feeling cloudy, no energy, very weak erections. I feel less motivated than ever after 45 days on hard mode and back to having the same ED. I still feel so horny and just want to MO so badly!
     
    Strekoza, May 22, 2015
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  2. May 22, 2015 #2
    intodust

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    Keep it up. it may be a setback but dont give onto binging . Keep building the streak a day at a time.
     
    intodust, May 22, 2015
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  3. May 22, 2015 #3
    WarriorOfStrong

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    It happens.....but from what you said I think you have managed to abstain physically but not mentally which is like a tease,try cutting it down mentally,chilly showers,exercise,etc....
     
    WarriorOfStrong, May 22, 2015
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  4. May 23, 2015 #4
    Strekoza

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    I was able to abstain mentally as well as physically until about day 38, then I began getting these uncontrollable thoughts and urges. I did start taking cold showers, but I heard they promote testosterone growth which may actually make urges even stronger.
    Warrrior, we are at around the same time frame, what benefits are you experiencing so far? If any
     
    Strekoza, May 23, 2015
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  5. May 24, 2015 #5
    WarriorOfStrong

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    This isn't my first time on nofap......i have explained the benefits in other post based on my previous attempts but to summarize.....
    I started this to stop hairfall (wasnt addicted) and i think i can see improvements
    My reflexes got better ,I played badminton after a while and did better than expected,not sure if its because of nofap
    When you have control over mind you can focus on other things
    When you are alone and PMO is not an option you can work on other things that you like
    I 'll post the link to my previous detailed post if you like....and if your goal were 90-100 days I wouldnt have been sure but since you only need 12 days so I
    will tell you to get this done for confidence.....
    And remember to not be overconfident because thats what got my streak broken else i would've completed a 100 straight days instead of 40 staright days + 60 straight days in a total of 104 days
     
    WarriorOfStrong, May 24, 2015
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  6. May 25, 2015 #6
    Strekoza

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    My end goal was actually a 100 days, I just set mini goals so it doesn't seem as tough. I don't feel like I have much control over my mind, rather I'm just good at telling myself "no". I can definitely feel a boost in my confidence levels and even things like memory. Just really hope it cures my ED, so far I have been getting wet dreams very often which I've never had before in my life, think that may be a good sign.
     
    Strekoza, May 25, 2015
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  7. May 25, 2015 #7
    WarriorOfStrong

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    This counter thing makes it sort of like a video game,I think i will go without a set goal ...
     
    WarriorOfStrong, May 25, 2015
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  8. May 25, 2015 #8
    StayStrong!

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    May I ask how often you were watching porn and masturbating? I range from 2-4 times a weeks, I haven't jacked it 4 days. Does two to four sound like an addiction?

    If you deeply do not want to wank Stay Strong! I'm sure your feeling will fade.

    Personally I don't think I will completely give up MO, it is natural. GOOD LUCK
     
    StayStrong!, May 25, 2015
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  9. May 25, 2015 #9
    Dan1

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  10. May 25, 2015 #10
    Strekoza

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    Yeah, I never had any interest in porn. However, I did fap anywhere from 2-4 times a day.
    I was also not planning to forbid mo completely in the long run, though I will do it as little as possible after the reset is over on hard mode and hopefully will find a new girlfriend.
    It's just tough because I am constantly in pain from blue balls, several months ago I had a girlfriend that would have sex with me like 6 times a day, now I have no sexual release besides for the wet dreams.
    The counter does make it seem more like a challenge, but that's really what it is.
     
    Last edited: May 26, 2015
    Strekoza, May 25, 2015
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