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Edging is so dangerous and difficult to deal with

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by chester123, Apr 10, 2020.

  1. chester123

    chester123 Fapstronaut

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    I’ve been trying very hard these days to achieve 14 days nofap, but I cant just pass the 7 days without edging, I know that the key of nofap is abstaining from touching yourself but It’s very hard for me, I just can’t know what to do and I’m seriously getting desperate.
    Once I edge it’s just a matter for the next day for me to relapse and starting over again, I’m struggling mostly on day 5, it’s just so hard for me guys, please help me
    Out here
     
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  2. IGY

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    To be honest, when you are edging - that is your relapse right there! o_O You need to leave porn and yourself alone bro. :)
     
  3. Yasin Sojib

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    It’s happened also me i can just pass 3 days igave been trying my best also ..if you find a solution please tell me also
     
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  4. GSM

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    Routine really helps me, if you set a bed time and get up at a certain time everyday while having a planned day ahead, eventually you find that you dont have time to touch your self, hope this helps, you'll make it bro, just keep pushing
     
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  5. It is not about strength. It is about mindset. This takes practice, but it does work. Don't beat yourself up. Be calm and deal with this problem in a rational way. I have relapsed a lot. It's no secret. I was lazy or felt I could peek at porn and would be okay. I wasn't.
     
  6. chester123

    chester123 Fapstronaut

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    I’m seriously trying very hard man, thanks for the support!
     
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  7. chester123

    chester123 Fapstronaut

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    I just feel that I should leave this ASAP because the depression after the relapse it’s just not good at all
     
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  8. watermellon28

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    Edging=blue balls

    Also edging is a bad idea I've done it years ago a few days consequently, and ended up going for the ejac after only a few days
    Just take it seriously and don't find ways around it.. don't spank it at all
     
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  9. MrYang29

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    if you can, don't do edging, keep your mind busy, realigned your mind to another thing. rise again, and again bro. and one day you may beat that addiction as you get stronger.
     
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  10. domsi

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    dont edge, thats the worst thing. edging keeps the dopamine rish going, its the peak pleasure of pmo (since orgasm lasts for like 3 seconds) that can be sustained for hours. if you cant control yourself, rather ejaculate 5 minutes into eatching porn, instead of watching it for hours and hours on end. of course, no porn and mssturbation at all are best, but stay away from edging, thats the most addictive part of this whole shit, and thats what keeps you watching for days and weeks.
     
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  11. This is how thousands of guys feel, so you are not alone. I don't like fighting with fire, you just get more fire. So try to stay calm about it and work just a little harder to keep away from porn.
     
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  12. Nak

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    Man you have to kill desere first by take clove (3) piece every day untill you find no desere..clove is treat mental fatiqure...
     
  13. chester123

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    Thank you all, This really helps me, I’ll be notifying here my progress , thanks again
     
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  14. Hulkbuster123

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    Just make sure you don’t grab or touch yourself for more than 3 seconds unless you want to urinate. @chester123
     
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  15. redemption7

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    In my experience, the moment you start touching yourself and knowing you should not is the moment you have put a hard cap on your streak. Once you start the touching, you are now on the fast track to a relapse. It is simply one step into temptation that you delude yourself into thinking is not so.

    If you notice you continue doing something and it shortly precedes a full relapse (in your case, edging), you have identified a trigger that you need to stop indulging when it comes up. Keep those hands above the sheets, king.
     
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  16. chester123

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    Thanks guys, I am on my 4th day now, haven’t touch myself not a single time and I’m honestly feeling awesome!
     
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  17. Digga187

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    Look bro ive had Pretty much the same Problem. I Always edged around day 5 and then by day 7 i relapsed. But the last time i told myself im gonna make it past that period no matter what. Then when those days came i turned my focus on 300% and gave everything just to get past These few days. For example i personally needed a lot of Sleep during These days and Pretty much during the entire first week of nofap. But then when i got past it i reached 20 days after which i relapsed due to a trigger. However you have to just get through those days, i know it can feel like you have no motivation but in that case just rest or go to Sleep and when you wake up Maybe youll feel better. It helped me going out for walks or just listening to music. Pretty much any distraction to get you past These days because after it happens a few times its more in your head than in your body.
     
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  18. Sed

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    This is a very good advice. Based on experience, it is way better to cum rather than edge. In fact, porn addicts, whom I am one, tend to watch porn for hours and hours. Simply to keep the dopamine flooding through the brain. Hence fapping is way better than edging. Unfortunately, we fool ourselves into thinking that edging may not be as harmful as relapsing, simply because we do not get the bad feeling after we edge in contrast to fapping.

    I wish you luck gentlemen, and keep on fighting!
     
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  19. chester123

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    That’s exactly what I used to think, No matter what, I’m going to stop touching myself, I am on my day 5 and until now I haven’t had any urges, but the worst part is yet to come, will remain strong
     
  20. chester123

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    Yeah, it’s just impossible holding yourself once you edge
     
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