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How I got to this point

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Perdeby, Apr 11, 2020.

  1. Perdeby

    Perdeby Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone. I am a 22 year old male. I have been struggling with porn and masturbation for 8 years. It literally ended my last relationship. And I didn’t have the confidence to put myself out there ever since. I felt ashamed, I felt dirty, I felt that I was a pervert. It took such a hold of me that some of my choices I made was off of it. I lost my V because of porn with a sexually active girl and I am extremely ashamed because of it.

    After all that I started life coaching this year and realized that I am not happy with how my life is going so it was time to change that and live my life the way I need and want to. One of my biggest problems was I didn’t want to do PM anymore so I have tried NOFAP on my own and if failed time and time again after I did research I found a YouTuber explaining his road on nofap and here I am

    I want people to hold me accountable and I want to stop PMO. I am already 4 days into this and its actually hard breaking this habit.

    Thanks for reading and sorry if I gave to much info first time posting
     
  2. Wolfgirl

    Wolfgirl Fapstronaut

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    Congratulations for joining NoFap and starting your journey. We’re all rooting for you. Good luck!
     
  3. We can do this man! Keep the hope up.
     
  4. Perdeby

    Perdeby Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man same to you
     
  5. Perdeby

    Perdeby Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man good luck to you to you also have this
     
  6. | Nico |

    | Nico | Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    Welcome to the community, all the best. Any questions or concerns please dont hesitate to ask :)
     
  7. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )
    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button /
    Set up your day counter /
    Rebooting Resources/
    Accountability groups (new!) /
    About NoFap/ Support Nofap
    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.
    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate section for you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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  8. The Free Bird

    The Free Bird Fapstronaut

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    Hi, welcome to the community

    I would recommend you to stay in touch with members and read their success stories. You may also learn tricks to avoid the short-term pleasure and to face the temptations.

    Be AWARE of your habits and control what you see and what/who you spend your time with.

    It's also important to limit the usage of social media. In addition, never be free! Use your free time as much as possible and do sports, exercise, attend classes, etc.


    This video contains everything that you need to know about porn addiction. Lastly, here is a collection of ways to deal with the urges which worked great for me.

    ֍ You got this my friend ֍
     
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  9. Hi @Perdeby, all the best to you! If you want to join 'The Matrix' challenge click here> 'The Matrix'
     
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