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I'm doing this! Right here! Right now! Anyone willing to support me on my NoFap journey?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Levi Ackerman, Apr 12, 2020.

  1. Levi Ackerman

    Levi Ackerman Fapstronaut

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    Fellow fapstronauts of this community, lend me your strength! I'm sick and tired of feeling conflicted about whether or not I should abstain from "sharpening my blade" or spending hours upon hours watching disgusting, degenerate filth on the internet.

    As someone who identifies as a cisgender, panromantic asexual (pls don't judge me), I feel lost and hopeless, and I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to feel like a slave to my own sexual desire anymore; I want to be free. I want to become my greatest version and live the life of my dreams. I don't want to let the greatest years of my life go to waste (I'll be turning 18 in 3 months at the time of posting this important message).

    Takeaway:
    I need you to please do me a favor and offer the best advice you have in mind. I need as much motivation as possible so that I can set up a strong foundation for my NoFap journey. I have been relapsing countless times for almost 15 months now (my longest streak was 17 months and that was my very first streak when I started NoFap at 15 years old) and I am hoping that I can overcome this addiction for good and never look back again.

    If you have made it this far, thank you for reading this and I hope you have a good day. Peace.
     
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  2. alex.is.me

    alex.is.me Fapstronaut

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    Hello dude,
    The best advice I could give you is read Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins
     
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  3. James2James

    James2James Fapstronaut

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    BEST advice? Here is what I would give -

    Focus and Believe

    Sounds kinda silly? Not at all. I believe far too many of us just can't clearly focus on our goals. We say we do, but we really do not. We're not really honest with ourselves. When we truly focus, we understand and we get serious. Or at least WE SHOULD. I also think most of us don't believe FULLY in what we do. We forget (or we have no clue) that the brain can do amazing things when we believe. When you visualize victory, the chances of getting it is much more realistic. I've had some rough spots in my life. But when I BELIEVED and I mean REALLY BELIEVED in myself to get out of those situations, I did. When you believe, you try harder, much harder. When you have focus..you believe.

    Don't discount those two words. They are NOT JUST words. To succeed at literally anything in our lives, we must focus and believe. Take account of these two things every day. Re-focus if you have to. Visualize that place where you want to get to and BELIEVE you can get there.

    Start thinking hard about that and you won't discount it. If you discount focus and belief/believing, it's probably because you didn't try hard enough to understand what those words truly mean.

    Life is not just about what you can see and touch and hold. Sometimes life's greatest powers are in your head. Let them loose.
     
  4. sinner76

    sinner76 Fapstronaut

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    Best of luck man. If you want an advice, then install porn blockers because it's much easier this way when porn is not a click away. That's something that has helped me a lot and I could have never achieved such a streak without them. Good luck mate.
     
  5. Ali Zien

    Ali Zien New Fapstronaut

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    I've read this book and hmmm... it gave me this energy to workout twice a day and do things I considered impossible then a hesitating question creeped in " You can't keep this forever, You will relapse back into default passive state".. this question keep repeating every time I try to change my life.
     
  6. Pathofsuccess_1

    Pathofsuccess_1 Fapstronaut

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    Yes definitely. Don’t fap again. Just know the depression and anxiety that comes after about 30-35 days is no joke. You will feel helpless at times. But just get through it! It’s so worth it!
     
  7. RoadToGreatness

    RoadToGreatness New Fapstronaut

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    Im currently 13 days in right now im that flatline stage where you really don't feel like flapping at all this stage is mostly boring don't get me wrong but im motivated to keep pushing and I urge you to bro keep pushing!
     
  8. Beni@

    Beni@ Fapstronaut

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    Today is my 8th day without porn and masterbation. I feeling good.
     
  9. alex.is.me

    alex.is.me Fapstronaut

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    Well, man absolutely everybody will have downfalls in their life if they are struggling to be better than the rest, but what makes the 5 percent the 5 percent is their ability to use their mistakes to their advantage and learn from them.So If u ever fall back into that state, look for what u did wrong and start again.
     
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