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Disappointed in myself

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by 金子熙吼吼吼, Apr 16, 2020.

  1. 金子熙吼吼吼

    金子熙吼吼吼 Fapstronaut

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    I don't watch porn, but I have a serious fetish, especially for women's legs.So when I see a picture or video of a girl's leg, I lose control .I want to stop masturbation. How can I do it?
     
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  2. First of all, you don't need to be dissapointed. I'm proud of you that you have courage to write here and look for help.

    Try to limit triggers as much as possible for a few months. Don't use social media, meme sites and so on.

    Think about your addiction. What is your problem? What do you try to cure with this unhealthy behavior? What do you want to change in your life but PMO?
     
  3. 金子熙吼吼吼

    金子熙吼吼吼 Fapstronaut

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    I want to get back to normal
     
  4. 金子熙吼吼吼

    金子熙吼吼吼 Fapstronaut

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    I don't want to masturbate. Some young women are normal to others, but they will make me afraid. I'm afraid that I will lose control. I'm totally in a state of illness
     
  5. Deysonn

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    I try, i go good for a while, then i relapse etc. What I would advise is that it is better to be a trying your best than not trying at all. You may relapse but its better you are defintely better off if you get some clean periods.

    Remove those sources where you see stimulating material from you life. This really helps, if you know your triggers and how you come into contact with them. This is good knowledge because you know what to avoid.

    Keep at it bro!!
     
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    Lol dam man, i wish my only problem was a womens legs. I get turned on by everything on them! Lol its normal man, we're men. But we're not supposed to entertain thoughts of lust of a women we dont even know. Its not easy i know, but I like to think of it like this. That women is someones little daughter or sister, put yourself in her fathers shoes and picture some random guy looking at her like that. We got to try and remind ourselves that theres an actual soul and person in side that body, that loves, hurts, crys and feels emotion. Ive really hurt some women and I regret it all the time. God designed women for us, but one wife. Its hard to wait though i know. Practice ignoring looking at them, semon retention, and see how many women start looking at you instead. ; ) it works, and who knows, you mighy just meet your wife
     
  7. 金子熙吼吼吼

    金子熙吼吼吼 Fapstronaut

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    (引用=“Deysonn,帖子:2504286,会员:376419”)我试过,我做得很好,然后又复发等等。我的建议是,做一个尽力而为的人,总比根本不努力好。你可能会复发,但如果你有一些干净的周期,你肯定会更好。

    Remove those sources where you see stimulating material from you life. This really helps, if you know your triggers and how you come into contact with them. This is good knowledge because you know what to avoid.

    Keep at it bro!![/QUOTE]
    I will!
     
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  8. Deysonn

    Deysonn Fapstronaut

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    I will![/QUOTE]

    That is the spirit......failure is part of life....Just keep on reaching for your goals!!
     
  9. 金子熙吼吼吼

    金子熙吼吼吼 Fapstronaut

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    I have to purify my brain, stop looking at those things, I'm forced to, I'm not happy looking at those things
     
  10. 金子熙吼吼吼

    金子熙吼吼吼 Fapstronaut

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    That is the spirit......failure is part of life....Just keep on reaching for your goals!![/QUOTE]
    Let's come on together
     
  11. 金子熙吼吼吼

    金子熙吼吼吼 Fapstronaut

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    Another day away from porn. It's great
     
  12. 金子熙吼吼吼

    金子熙吼吼吼 Fapstronaut

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    In my mind, there is another world that does not exist, that is, the wrong world that is infatuated with women.
     

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