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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by an0n8200, Apr 22, 2020.

  1. an0n8200

    an0n8200 Fapstronaut

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    Lockdown is really screwing with my head. It was hard enough fighting a porn addiction, but fighting a porn addiction while being stuck inside for months on end is making it feel impossible.

    I have a girlfriend who I really love, but I can’t stop looking at porn. I always feel so bad afterwards. The kind of stuff I look at is really messed up as well. My girlfriend’s past makes me anxious and jealous, and I’m also scared of losing her one day. I think to cope with the stress my brain tries to sexualise it. I hate it and I want it to stop.

    I’ve been able to come to my senses and stop what I’m doing halfway through a few times, so maybe theres been some improvement. But it’s still not enough. I don’t want to look at porn.

    I will be aiming for a 7 day streak of no porn. Wish me luck
     
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  2. Wolf7

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    You need to put blockers in place and greatly reduce your time on devices with internet connection or access to porn. You have to do that and it's non-negotiable. You need to sacrifice certain things for the betterment of yourself. Also being jealous about your girlfriends past won't do much. If you know about it and still are with her then you're accepting her for who she is in the present, not the past. Being upset over the past will do nothing but take a good woman away from you. Your counter says you're on 14 days? Anyway you can get to the streak that you'd like. Just believe in yourself and yuo have to accept rather dying than going back to porn. It is the only way. You need to kill that part of yourself.
     
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  3. Try to direct your sexual urges toward your gf? make love with her every other night or every time you see each other?
    That way you won't lose her for sure.
     
  4. an0n8200

    an0n8200 Fapstronaut

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    I hadn’t been on the website for a while so hadn’t updated my counter.

    Thanks for the advice pal.
     
  5. an0n8200

    an0n8200 Fapstronaut

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    I can’t because of lockdown. I think that’s what’s making this so hard
     
  6. Oh sorry. I missed that. The entire world in lockdown haha :emoji_laughing:my bad!
    I can't really give you any advice. This is hard on everyone tho. I am figuring it out myself.
     
  7. Wolf7

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    I’m on lockdown as well and still retaining my seed. No excuses, you can do this
     

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