What to do when a girl rejects you

Thanks man, i should read this book one day.
What you just said is so interesting and sums up my whole post and even more. Thank you for that. Some people don't understand what I'm saying in this post. "moving on" doesn't mean anyhting. That's not enough, guys. How you react to rejection and even any other situation in your everyday life is the most important thing.

It happened to all of us. We all got rejected by a girl and let our egos get the better of us. We said things we regretted afterwards. By doing that, we hurt the girl, and that girl certainly had a harder time rejecting other guys in a respectful way without ignoring them for fear of reliving that situation. But more importantly, we hurt ourselves. We know it was anger or sadness that made us say those things. This encounter could have been something fulfilling and could have been a way for us to grow out of it. Even without a love story with that girl.
We chose the other path. The easier path. But the most painful. We lost our way in doing so.

Let's put our pride aside and act like men. A man doesn't let rejection get him down. He remains true to himself in spite of rejection. Even if he is in pain or someone hurts him, he remains true to his values. Because it is simply the right thing to do. It's harder, I'll grant you that. He found this girl attractive and he liked who she was. He embraces it and he respects her decision. It takes a lot of self-work. But it brings fulfillment, a high value, and the feeling of knowing yourself and controlling your life. You show this girl all these strengths and she'll be less afraid to tell the truth to other guys, even if it hurts.

Just because you get rejected doesn't mean you should do nothing and run away from the situation. You link rejection to something negative. There's something to be gained from every situation no matter what.
We become aware of the value of rejection only when we experience it hundreds of times.

 

I definitely agree. In the beginning, we take action to repair a lack of self-confidence and get results. So we're making a lot of mistakes.
Thanks for adding this man

 

I get what you mean and this is interesting.
However, I like girls, not out of need, but out of love. I like to spend time and have deep and intense connections with them. To say otherwise would be to lie to you and lie to myself. I think that every encounter can bring us a lot and can bring a lot to this girl. We all have things to learn from each person. Every relationship we have allows us to learn and gain experience.

I don't need girls. I just love them. And I think that's essential to being a well-rounded person. Finding the answers within ourselves is something that's important. True love comes from within. But if we're not able to share that love for ourselves with the world and the people around us, that's sad.

 

Ahh I didn't fully understand your point. I totally agree with you.