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90day Challenge Accepted

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by DbArcher, Feb 16, 2017.

  1. DbArcher

    DbArcher Fapstronaut

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    I started reboot on the 12th Feb 2017 and I'm 4 days in.
    I started pmo since I was 15+ and for the past 5years been fighting this addiction which all started the day I decided to watch porn on my phone and play with my "John Thomas"
    it felt good when I orgasmed,I enjoyed it little did I know it was a staircase down to hell.
    couple of months went by and then I realized I needed to stop this destructive habit. It's something I can't discuss publicly ,a dark secret I've kept to myself all these years

    I've struggled with countless relapses that I wonder if I'll ever break my pmo addiction. But I never let down, I continued in the spiral of relapses.
    I came across noFap about 2yrs ago signed up but soon forgot bout it.(Didn't even confirm my account). I still continue to wallow in my destructive habit relapsing from time to time. I had a 30day no pmo streak(which felt good)one time which I've aimed to attain ever since but to no avail.Ever since it's been up an down rise and fall, I never gave up on my self .I'd go for like a week ,2 wks sometimes but I ended up relapsing still.

    I confirmed my noFap account about 4days ago,which was the last time I pmo'd.I read couple of interesting stories that got me right back on track for another reboot just happens that I'm very geared to surmount my pmo addiction this time around.
    I'm 4 days in now and today has got me fighting for my 90day challenge .couple of thoughts to watch porn this morning but I've kept my head strong cause I know more of this will still surface but my will power at overcoming such urges will get me through em temptations cause I'm sick n tired of this shi*.
    I know it's just couple of days in but it's all just a matter of step by step ,day by day and soon I'll get to the 90 day mark.
    I'm ever more encouraged because I know I got like minded ones here.
    and my advice to us all is that If we truly want this we can get it
    we can overcome this addiction
    remember
    a step at a time
    day by day
    it all lies in our willpower
    solidify it day by DAy
    and we'll all get there.
    Another major encouragement comes from those that have assumed awesome no pmo streaks(200+ days,1 year, 2 years)
    now that's something I wanna achieve too.

    I believe together
    we can change and we can overcome our addictions.
     
  2. CESIUM755

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    HELLO FRIEND,I M WITH YOU.MY LONGEST STREAK IS JUST 36 DAYS.I ACCEPT THE CHALLENGE OF 90 DAYS.LETS FACE THIS TOGETHER.I M ALSO 20 AND 5 YEARS EARLIER I ALSO STARTED THIS HABIT OF SLOW DESTRUCTION.THAT TIME I USED TO RUB MY P.THAT TIME AT LEAST IT TOOK 20 MINUTES TO EJACULATE BUT NOW I EJACULATE WITHIN 20 SECONDS.I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.HOPE THIS 90 DAYS CHALLENGE SOLVES THIS PROBLEM.I M WITH YOU.LETS FACE THIS TOGETHER.BEST WISHES.I WILL TRY TO UPDATE IN EVERY 3-4 DAYS.
     
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  3. DbArcher

    DbArcher Fapstronaut

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    thanks.
    I stand wit you Fam.
    I have the same problem I max out in seconds when I jerk off to porn,I knew that was a prerequisite to Premature ejaculation which I've kinda noticed the times I had real sex.
    I found out my pubococcygeus muscle or PC muscle got weakened over time due to constant M over a long period of time.
    Tho I've no case of PIED
    I believe I might have PE which I believe abstinence from PMO will bring about a major difference in my sex life.
    brace up
    Be brave
    I believe together we can do this
    iStandWithYou
     
  4. DbArcher

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    Day5
    I'll acknowledge the fight was crazy yesterday and early this morning
    but I didn't give in to them urges
    #willpower stronger than them urges
    I believe this is it
    the long anticipated break I've ever wanted from PMO addiction.

    I've resorted to making the 90day challenge more productive by starting a workout program to channel all the energy
    Meditation to calm the energy
    and read books to be more enlightened

    I started meditation and I think I like the effects it has on me, makes me calm and forget my worries bout life and also offers a window of reflection.

    Day 5 and I say noPmo
     
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  5. DbArcher

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    Day 5 at an end
    It was all fun today
    was able to keep my mind off p and fight any urge
    thanks to my new found love in classical musics

    I downloaded couple of classicals tis afternoon of Mozart's
    and it was just a miracle
    Fred my MInd
    meditated for long
    calmed me
    eliminated brain fog
    just one great way to escape pmo temptations

    Day 5 checked-

    I can
    I Will
    I Must
    say no to pmo
     
  6. DbArcher

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    Day 6
    Fighting lil urges here and there to watch p
    but putting them down
    not much drama so far
    day 5 and 6 been fun so far

    these lil victories get me all more determined to thrive for more wins over pmo

    half way done with day 6
    a week tomorrow day 7
    feel excited

    I Stand With NoPMO
     
  7. DbArcher

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    Day 6
    I must say day 3 had it tough on me though
    but I conquered
    can't wait to make it a week
    perhaps it was all fun today
    #Willpower stronger than em urges
    I've really found a fortress in Listening to classical music
    tuned my ears to works by Beethoven today along side meditation
    and I must say worked wonders
    helped keep my mind free
    pmo stood no chance
    little to no brain fog
    I must say I get a whole lot of motivation from stories I read here
    keeps me going
    and thriving to bring out the best in me
    and also knowing I'm not in this alone
    knowing I'm part of a team gears me forward
    Day 6 over
    Day 7 here I come
    I Stand With NoPMO
    I Can
    I Will
    I Must
     
  8. DbArcher

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    #Day 7
    lve been able to keep my mind off porn
    so far so good
    NO pmo in a week now.
    I really feel this is the way I want things to be henceforth, no more going back to my vomits
    porn is bad and I've been enslaved to it for so long
    it's high time I Fred myself.

    Getting my productivity back on track,
    feeling more like a normal human being I must say
    the stench and guilt of pmo fading away rapidly

    I stand with no pmo
     
  9. DbArcher

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    Day9
    Few urges here and there
    but my willpower still driving me my fear of starting all over again.Believe me I
    can't afford to start all over again.
    I'll keep pushing on
    day by day
    fighting em urges

    IStandWithNoPmo
    I can
    I Will
    I Must
     
  10. DbArcher

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    Day13
    Been a long while I posted here.
    So far so good, I'm still hell bent on my resolution of noPMO.
    Urge to watch porn hits me once In a while but then I think about the consequences;
    1.I'll start my 90days streak all over again (which I can't afford ,even tho it's just still days).Believe me this is a major Motivation
    2.I think about how shitty I'll be and disappointed in my self if I eventually PMO


    The thoughts of all these keeps me going to push on the more and add more days and perhaps making it more difficult to relapse.
    I know I can do this and I believe in myself.

    Benefits So Far;
    1.I have this sense of good living and a boosted self esteem
    2.Been able to eliminate brain fog (I think my brain is getting used to no porn already, wonderful!)
    3.My member no longer dances to the tune of gravity.It felt lifeless weeks back,but with the 13 days noPMO so far its been getting firmer and it no longer dangles (I was wowed by the change)

    I hope this serves as motivation booster for noFap users.We can do this. Together we Can.

    I Stand With NoPMO
    I Must
    I Can
    I Will
     
  11. DbArcher

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    14Days
    I'm filled with immense joy I've made it this far
    the journey hasn't been smooth but my determination and will power has kept me going all this while.
    I came across an adult page yesterday but quickly
    got out .I really felt better after making that decision.
    2wks with noPMO, And I can say I'm proud of this achievement.

    I Stand With NoPMO
    I Can
    I Must
    I Will
     
  12. DbArcher

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    Day 2, here we go.
    Starting all over again, with renewed strength. I know I can, I know will, and I must.
    Day 1 was a breeze, and day 2 will be as well.
    "Don't open that tab", "Talk Back"
    These are my go to words for when the time comes, the monster is always waging a constant war, and I must be alert at every single time of the day to wage back.
     
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    Day 3
    Here we go.
     
  14. DbArcher

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    Day 3 was a breeze. During the day, I got myself involved in activities. Didn't think about porn.
     
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    Day 5/365
    I have been spending less time on social media, and I think it has been of help. And I've been discreet about what I feed my eyes when I go online. I must manage my triggers. And though they have no powers until I give them, I still must not undermine their destructive ability.

    Going strong, and stronger everyday.
    Coming here on NoFap everyday has also been fueling me alot, and I appreciate you guys, knowing we're fighting this good fight together, gives me a sense of belonging.

    The good fight continues!
     
  16. DbArcher

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    Day 6/365.
    Going good. Urges now and then (that are getting stronger,day by day), but Opening that tab is still not an option. I Know theses urges are powerless, until I give them a reason to be otherwise. And I just can't afford that, not today! I'm sick and tired of starting all over again. NOT TODAY!
     
  17. DbArcher

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    Today is Day 7/365. Exactly a week of no PMO. I can say this is a milestone, a small one in that, but in as much a considerable advancement in my streak.
    This past one week has not really been tough for me. The last few days (5,6), l've had increased urges, but nothing I didn't subdue. I've learnt this one week that, my urges are powerless and cannot harm me until I give them a reason to be otherwise. And that reason is if I open that tab,If I stay idle all day and on my phone. But if I can keep myself from opening that tab, if I can stay productive, I'm good to go. There's this good feeling that comes with getting things done.

    Talking back to my urges, which is my brain, also has been of help. I'm the boss here, and should dictate whatever I want for myself and not my brain. I don't want to watch porn, not anymore, and my brain will have to start adapting to that.
    This journey is not only about defeating porn, It is also about building discipline in all area of my life and being decisive and deliberate about what I truly want, that will make me genuinely happy.

    I want to use this opportunity to thank you all,on this wonderful site, for the support. It feels good to be fighting this good fight not alone, but alongside you guys. I mean, when I see some numbers here, I'm amazed, and I think/say to myself, "If this person can attain this streak, I can". Lowkey, so many of you guys are my role models, and which I want to be to others too, soon, someday. We rise by lifting others up.
    Though this is just 1Week, I don't plan on giving up this good fight, not ever. What do we say to PMO, "NOT TODAY!"
     

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