Trouble Looking at Girls

Dont be a creep. If you are attracted to them why dont you just approach?

 

Use the 3 second rule:

1) Acknowledge
2) Accept
3) Move on

 

I don't think gym class is an appropriate place to "approach" girls unless you mean just talk to them.

Definitely use NoBrainers technique and acknowledge and move on.

 

That's what I said to someone else previously, but apparently, that's just my mindset...

 

gym class always worked for me when I would flirt with girls.....?

 

Don't worry man I can totally relate to you. It's extremely tempting when they wear yoga pants, spandex, short shorts, etc. Honestly, you shouldn't be hard on yourself and it's natural that men in particular, will look at a woman's boobs, ass, or anything that is attractive. But there's a difference between "looking" and "staring" and you should really consider NoBrainer's advice. Girls and women in general have this natural instinct that they'll know exactly when you've been looking too long, just by turning around. It's a women thing, don't ask me how I know I just do. It's really embarrassing and I know from experience. Do not let it turn into a bad habit, it might ruin your chance to engage with them in a healthy manner. Just acknowledge, accept, and move on using NoBrainer's technique. At this point, I've heard about this topic so many times that I'm considering changing my own habits. When you have that moment of "to look or not to look" think about how it says about you and how you judge women. The right thing to do is not to look, but that's easier said than done. But at least you're not the creep that stares at a girl's body parts every moment they get. Even better, you're not that guy who stalks girls, follows them home, or doing something else that's nasty and perverted. For me, I'm trying to not let it turn into a habit and so should you.