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Porn has severely damaged my soul, I need help.

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by JustAddThyme, May 9, 2020.

  1. JustAddThyme

    JustAddThyme Fapstronaut

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    Hey NoFappers,

    This is really, really difficult for me to say but here goes..

    I've been watching this filth for over 15 years and up until I started with NoFap (By the grace of the Good Lord), my mind started to wonder to the point where nothing would turn me on anymore except extreme sex, incest & beastiality.

    It had gotten so bad that it has damaged my relationship with some family members as they found out that I started to feel sexually attracted to them. Now they are completely disgusted and really upset.

    I am desperate to make this right. I feel miserable, I miss my old life before this happened.

    Also, has anything like this happen to anyone else and if so how did you deal?
     
  2. TheLightOne

    TheLightOne Fapstronaut

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    Which relatives? Just curiosity.

    Well ur in a good place. Nofap cures that.
     
  3. tomelite

    tomelite Fapstronaut

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    pornography changes your behaviors dont let pornography change you .
     
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  4. It all about our DNA and the Coolidge effect. I mean, by default, we just like a normal fucking animal, eat sleep fuck repeat. The more of discipline we have the more we become success. We feel miserable because we have ability to think right or wrong but we don't have enough discipline to fix them.
    You not alone brother, i feel sexual attracted to all women in the world and i want to f*** all of them, just except those who too ugly. I realised something, it just my mind tell me that i want to f them, but i don't want at all. What i actually want is a smart woman who can make me think and laugh, that all. We don't need to have sex or masturbate all life and its OK.
     
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  5. Common man, you are warrior, remember this. You cannot quit, it just another reasonable tactic your brain create that lead you to astray.
    Stop thinking about it man, just don't, focus on your life. Everytime when dopamine hit the bottom i listen music or work out or run, exercise create pure dopamine
    Everyday is a battle man, keep going until you make it a habit then it gonna be easy
     
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  6. JustAddThyme

    JustAddThyme Fapstronaut

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    @porsche911carrera Love you brother, thank you for the boost

    and I promise you with the mindset you have of wanting to help people and do right, not only will you find a woman who is smart, loyal and funny, but she will be lucky to have a MAN like you in her life

    Keep up the good fight brother!
    We are WARRIORS!
     
  7. MrBlue201

    MrBlue201 Fapstronaut
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    This is a struggle a lot of guys have. It can be beaten. Do it for yourself! I mean, we've pretty much figured out how bad it is for us. Now its time to go ALL IN! I'm in on this too. I just worked out before bed and I feel hopeful for the future.
     
  8. ELN

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    That's important. It means, years ago you felt better with yourself. You have a goal: feel like then. I think you can get it with effort and pacience.
     
  9. Lonely Artist

    Lonely Artist Fapstronaut

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    I have been watching this filth for 9 years. I cant believe i wasted all those years for nothing.I have less friends and sure no girlfriend. Everyday i woke up pathetic. I dont know what is my dream.Everything of me feels ruined.
    Tempation win if you let in ,so does will of you let in.
    I want to change myself to a new being . Want to feel my energy back. My happiness back. We are warriors bro .We stop at nothing Because we are driven not by desire but by our Necessity. Best of Luck bro . We can change . We all have the same promblem and same solution ( no pmo)
     
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  10. Griitings

    Griitings Fapstronaut

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    Hmm! This is sad. This is what porn can do. Porn is really dangerous. Be committed to nofap. I believe you will be free.
     
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