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Hello from Canada.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ShyGuyASD68, May 10, 2020.

  1. May 10, 2020 #1
    ShyGuyASD68

    ShyGuyASD68 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I am a 50+ year old male living in the eastern Canadian province of Newfoundland (yeah, The "rock"). Yes, it is a lonely place even in the middle of summer and worse during a pandemic outbreak the likes of what is currently occurring. Anyways, I am rambling here.

    I have had a lesbian and nubile porn addiction for close to 25 years, and a cpr/resus fetish addiction that stemmed from the lesbian addiction for the last 2 or 3 years. And on top of all that, came an autism spectrum diagnosis 4 years ago (shook me to the core). I have had relationship issues with girls probably since the age of 10, mainly with crushes/infatuation, and the shyness/social awkwardness (from the autism) rearing it's ugly head. I have noticed in recent years, mainly from the piles of money I throw at porn sites/cpr fetish sites/portable hard drives for what I download to watch later, that I do have a problem with lesbian porn mainly and want to kick the habit. I finally watched the episode of "this is life with lisa ling" late last night and heard about this site and forum, and decided that I needed to take a chance at help. The nubile porn addiction has had a major affect on me with the development of a infatuation towards a high school girl that lives up the street from me, and I need to find ways to get that out of my system before I act on it (thank god for the autism with social awkwardness). As for masturbation, it's not a regular thing, but more of a turned-on thing from watching the porn/fetish videos which can be up to a couple of times a week or so depending on how many new videos I download/purchase and watch. I haven't even calculated how much money I spent over the last 20+ years on porn/fetish vidz.
     
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  2. May 10, 2020 #2
    helpinghand4all

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    Same here I suspect having autism also. Just slowly and steadily leave all the bad habits it might take a couple of years to be entirely free of being an addict.
     
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  3. May 10, 2020 #3
    ShyGuyASD68

    ShyGuyASD68 New Fapstronaut

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    IMHO, I think you would benefit greatly from getting an autism diagnosis, it may help answer some nagging questions you have in the back of your mind. I know it had a profound effect on me as to why I acted the way I did growing up.
     
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  4. May 11, 2020 #4
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    Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:
    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/
    Set up your day counter /
    Rebooting Resources/
    Accountability groups (new!)/
    About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is just some advice:
    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate sectionfor you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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  5. May 11, 2020 #5
    One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to NoFap!!!
     
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  6. May 11, 2020 #6
    | Nico |

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    Welcome to the community :) glad you could join us, anything we can assist you with let us know, best of luck on your journey.
     
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