Helpless :( *Possibly triggering text !*

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First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

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The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
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There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
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Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!

 

With this mentality, you will stay helpless for sure. Bro, you've took the decision to register on this site so it means that you want to change. You aren't that helpless after all. It's time to get serious about your life now. It's time to break free from this poison and live the life you truly deserve my friend. We will be there if you need help. We are all fighting the same beast, and we will win at the end. Let's do this. I believe in you, so give everything you have.

YOU WILL SUCCEED. YOU MUST SUCCEED.

 

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Welcome among us my friend.

YOU WILL SUCCEED. YOU MUST SUCCEED.

 

Hi. I can really relate to your situation only a bit. Everything that it is needed to defeat your urges will be said in other places there (meditation, a cold shower, training, walking, running, TRYING to be positive, even swearing or trying some supplements which could increase serotonin). But in this case there are no panacea. More tools - more you will become stronger. Especially I would advise you to fight other addictions because it seems that you are addicted to YouTube (like I was). You should question yourself why you need this garbage. Good luck my friend!

 

I have found the perfect way for anyone struggling with addiction to any variation of femdom videos and is wanting to make a change.

When doing this you may find yourself in a position to be triggered to m but this is about overcoming that using will power.
If you feel like you can not watch a femdom video without m then start small something small and work your way up to what turns you on the most. For example you could start with femdom videos that are very poorly acted. You’ll see when you read the instructions.
•firstly I started with a video that made me relapse it was a femdom related office instruction video, now she tried her best to humiliate me verbally but every time she’d insult me I’d throw an insult right back at her and you’ll find she becomes less attractive and dominant when you make fun of their act.
For example she way saying something like you have a small penis and I would say in my head or out loud you wouldn’t be saying that if my dick was in your mouth, you’d shut your bratty mouth up then. It realised to me that as I broke down her act to seduce me it wasn’t that enticing and dominant it was really a pathetic performance of bullying. From this I could build it up towards more enticing femdom videos with a real good Dom in it.
Please try this and reply with the feedback on how it helped it isn’t long term recovery imo but I think it will help if your watching one of them videos and wanted to pmo
stay strong brothers
123Dele