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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by NeverWalkAlone, Apr 25, 2020.

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  1. May 11, 2020 #201
    2ndChance!

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    Day (15/90): Completed

    Yout might ask why the count is red, here it is:
    Holy shit.... this was the fucking hardest day so far... and the day is not even over... I had intense urges and also started fapping to some semi-porn (clothed women) but could hold me back. I went into the cold-shower, but I know that starting to fap(or edging) is normally a harbinger for relapse...

    I'll try to get a clean head, maybe go outside... or for sure I'm going outside now.
     
    2ndChance!, May 11, 2020
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  2. May 11, 2020 #202
    NeverWalkAlone

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    Thank you my friend for these motivating words, my mistake was that I didn't try to write here once I felt so weak, I will be more focused this time with investing my time in a new habit.
     
    NeverWalkAlone, May 11, 2020
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  3. May 11, 2020 #203
    G0ReadAB00k

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    Good for you for stopping in the middle of the fap!

    One technique that has also worked for me in the past is to remember that every time the temptation arises, you DO have the ability to change your thoughts. Once the thought pops up in your mind, recognize it and then actively take authority over your thoughts to think about something else. For me, as a Christian, I choose to focus on the image of Christ on the cross dying for my sins, but for you it can be anything! Just tell your brain "NO! I am NOT going to go down that line of thinking. I am going to avert my thoughts to something beneficial and productive!"

    The cool thing about this exercise is that it is also actively rewiring your brain, just like abstaining from fapping!
     
    G0ReadAB00k, May 11, 2020
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  4. May 11, 2020 #204
    NeverWalkAlone

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    Calm down my friend, you made the right decision to write down here now.
    I was just feeling like you, my brain was screaming for porn, it is the rebooting process, if you pass it, your brain will calm down again giving up gradually the idea of watching porn.
     
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  5. May 11, 2020 #205
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    Day (12/90) completed
     
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  6. May 11, 2020 #206
    2ndChance!

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    I went for a 45 min. rain jogging to settle my mind. Now I'm clearer and a step further on the way.

    Happy to announce my official longest streak since I was 13en or something.
     
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  7. May 11, 2020 #207
    Griitings

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    Thank you
     
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  8. May 11, 2020 #208
    Griitings

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    DAY 18/90 COMPLETED
    I had a severe temptation yesterday. I wrote my thoughts down. I challenged myself that I was not going to use artificial things (mobile phone/computer, pixels, screen, high speed internet) to arouse myself. I also reminded myself about the benefits I would get the following day, that is being proud and happy that I did not PMO, as well as the long term benefits (sharper memory, confidence, appreciating natural things, balance in brain chemicals, healthy sexual organs, among others).
     
    Griitings, May 11, 2020
    Griitings, May 11, 2020
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  9. May 11, 2020 #209
    Griitings

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    Congrats man
     
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  10. May 11, 2020 #210
    NeverWalkAlone

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    That's it. Congrats my friend, I am so happy to hear these good news from you.
     
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  11. May 11, 2020 #211
    NeverWalkAlone

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    Congrats my dear friend, keep on, you are just 3 days far from completing Phase 4.
     
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  12. May 11, 2020 #212
    2ndChance!

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    I had to reset my counter, I slipped into and could not resist. Right now I'm pretty downed, but I know that there should still be progress, and I want to tie on that in this try. I can't leave it any chance if I want to get over these 2 Weeks.

    I will go inside me and think about the causes and what I can do better this time.

    Stay strong guys.
     
    2ndChance!, May 11, 2020
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  13. May 11, 2020 #213
    krisztouch

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    Keep it up bro
     
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  14. May 12, 2020 #214
    krisztouch

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    Relapsed
     
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  15. May 12, 2020 #215
    NeverWalkAlone

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    @krisztouch @2ndChance!
    Calm down guys, we must know that approaching our goal is not only about "achieving x number of days", but with the mindset of putting distance between yourself and porn, so that it's something that truly feels like it's in your rearview window.
    We are winning, no need to worry or getting depressed, because our brains are healing, look how much have you been watching porn before and look now at your best streak, there's a big difference of course. Our brains are at a very good position now, that we should keep our success and get more focused on completing our long journey. We shouldn't binge on feeling depressed, it will make our brains more needing to porn until we relapse again.
    We are not guilty if we relapse after achieving a very good streak compared to our previous addiction to porn, but we are guilty if we don't give our brains the full chance to reboot again.

    We will reach our big goal together, and at the end of the road we will all remember these failures and how we were strong to go on again.
     
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  16. May 12, 2020 #216
    NeverWalkAlone

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    Day (3/90): Completed :emoji_v:
    Phase (1/7): Completed
    Yesterday I felt depressed for some time, I know it's my brain screaming because it thinks I will relapse again and again and it wants more images and videos to release more dopamine.
    But I should give my brain the full opportunity to reboot and don't lose the last success I have achieved.
    I am more focused on exercising regularly, and I will try yoga/meditation.
     
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    NeverWalkAlone, May 12, 2020
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  17. May 12, 2020 #217
    G0ReadAB00k

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    Day (3/90): Completed
    Phase (1/7): Completed

    Being out of my own house and with my fiancé's family this week has been a huge distraction from porn. I don't have much privacy here, which is a very very good thing in this season. Staying busy with work, keeping my head down, and pressing forward!
     
    G0ReadAB00k, May 12, 2020
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  18. May 12, 2020 #218
    Griitings

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    That's good to hear. Good luck champ.
     
    Griitings, May 12, 2020
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  19. May 12, 2020 #219
    Griitings

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    DAY 19/90 COMPLETED
     
    Griitings, May 12, 2020
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  20. May 12, 2020 #220
    G0ReadAB00k

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    Great job! Keep it up homie!
     
    G0ReadAB00k, May 12, 2020
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