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New guy tho

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by chtobleat, May 22, 2020.

  1. chtobleat

    chtobleat Fapstronaut

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    Hi, as you probably know from the title, I'm the new guy. And I don't know what to do with my urges. I'm kinda "a lot of thinking" person and my fantasies about porn stuff are deep far enough, so urges come. And having procrastination gives more problems with that, I'm not motivated at all. Donno, should ask for a help or not, thank you anyways.
    I'm sorry, I'm not that good at english :)
     
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  3. chtobleat

    chtobleat Fapstronaut

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    Thank you ;)
     
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  4. :)-keepsmiling

    :)-keepsmiling Fapstronaut

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    Hey there,
    Don't worry. We all deal the same. What we do here is that we remind eachother how filthy porn is and advise each other to build good habits that we haven't tried for days. It can be anything my friend!!
    When we try these new habits we get a sense of realisation in ourself that we have some purpose which is more important than watching porn. That realisation...... Oh my GOD!!!!!..........I will leave the describe it's taste to you mate. Later when you write your success story, write about that sense of satisfaction that you felt. You will inspire many to take this challenge.
    Don't worry of all those short commings. You see I just relapsed today in my 1 month streak but I haven't lost HOPE because I have tasted that satisfaction of leading a normal sexual life.
    I have my dreams that I have been dreaming off since my childhood. Thinking about that makes me motivated for the day to get started.
    Good luck for your journey!!!
    Don't forget to post in the forum's!!!!!
    Cheers
     
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  5. chtobleat

    chtobleat Fapstronaut

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    Thank you very much! I'm very glad to see supportive friends like you, hope we'll do very well! :)
     
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  6. niftydevice

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    You should probably deal with the procrastination in tandem? Sounds like you need a good way to manage your time as well as quitting PMO.
     
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  7. Welcome to the community! :)
     
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  8. chtobleat

    chtobleat Fapstronaut

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    Thank you very much! :)
     
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  9. chtobleat

    chtobleat Fapstronaut

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    I think you're right. Time management is a really important thing, I will take care of it. Thank you.
     
  10. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
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    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
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    Here is just some advice:
    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active onyour profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate sectionfor you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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