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Rebooting with a sex doll potentially????

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by EnvironmentalLayer8, May 22, 2020.

  1. EnvironmentalLayer8

    EnvironmentalLayer8 Fapstronaut

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    Say guys just checking in with some other peoples opinions. I’m on this rebooting process last streak 43 days and right now I’m about 7 or 8 days back in the game. However I wanted some input on sexual behavior for instance using a sex doll.

    The questions on my mind are

    Can using these devices be considered as masturbation or a healthy alternative?

    Do you guys think this will help with porn induced erectile dysfunction? Or will it persist along with flatlines etc?

    Just asking a questions not commited to this idea and really would appreciate serious answers thx again.
     
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  2. ooo123

    ooo123 Fapstronaut

    My opinion is real sex is better than masturbate with sex doll.
    What is the point of masturbation, if you started to do at some point you will imagine some porn scene while masturbation which is bad and really can be a reason for a relapse.

    absolutely, its kind of masturbation.

    Try to avoid it and make your goal is having fun with real sex, porn or just masturbation sucks
     
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  3. I don't thing would be a good idea because you can O eventually. Hardmode is the best way to fully heal.
     
  4. Submariner

    Submariner Fapstronaut

    Personally, I think having 'sex' with a plastic object should never be considered healthy.
     
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  5. redemption7

    redemption7 Fapstronaut

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    I think you know the answer to this one without having to ask people. It is definitely masturbation and certainly a bad move for your general recovery from pornography and masturbation addiction.
     
  6. Awedouble

    Awedouble Fapstronaut

    This reminds me of this documentary with people using dolls in Japan, but these guys - middle aged and even married also took them out and had photo sessions, one guy rented a hotel room with the doll. They TALKED to them as if they were real girls.

    The dolls don't talk back.

    Needless to say this is all in their head, in other words straight up fantasy and delusion. But these guys spoke about wanting the behavior to be socially accepted.

    There is physical masturbation and mental masturbation. Most people rebooting probably think the physical part is what counts but this may be the exact opposite.

    Lets suppose android technology gets good enough that they have passable sex dolls that talk and behave very closely as a human being. My thought is that will mirror what is happening with people cognitively being addicted to not just porn but other things online: As the algorithms gets smarter, people become more stupid or more accurately, they expect human behavior to fit that profile. What this means is even the very "smart" devices only ends up conditioning people to have that set of expectations rather than living breathing people with their own mind. In that sense it's already happening to an extent.

    And of course it relates to objectification in that it is literally a physical object in the first place. It's a strange reversal in that people project living qualities on to what is dead rather than projecting simplistic expectations on to real people as sex objects to serve only those functions. Again it's about fitting these expectations.
     
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  7. Free your mind

    Free your mind Fapstronaut

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    Its just replacing one bad thing with another.
    The point should be regaining natural affection towards women, not artificial stimulus (which sex doll certainly is in this case). Even if you keep away from porn, your brain will connect sex doll with a pleasure, instead of women. And the difference is significant lol
     
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  8. ConquerorQ

    ConquerorQ New Fapstronaut

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    If this rehabilitation is divided into stages. For example, now he refuses to masturbate. After a certain period, he connects his life with a sex doll. Well, the last stage is a return to the standard sexual relations with a living woman. I think this option is more effective. The possibility of relapse is minimized. I am confident about this format of rehabilitation, as I know the real story. My friend in his teens was very shy and with girls he could not do it. So he began to masturbate, while I was changing one girl after another. I tried to introduce him to someone, but it always ended in failure. He was just running away.He explained this by saying that he was not ready. When he turned 18, I decided to give him a sex doll (ordered on https://www.ovdoll.com/p/realistic-sex-dolls/ ). He was happy. But he still didn't get close to the girls. At least I was glad that we could discuss the female forms. And at some point, when he just got tired of such a life, he decided to try a relationship with a real and live girl. As a result, this guy now gives me some advice about sex.
     
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  9. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    There is nothing healthy about masturbating with the use of a fleshlight or a sex doll.

    I wonder if the urge to masturbate and orgasm is greater than your addiction to porn.
     

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