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17 yo new to nofap benefits life-changing?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by edjisookim, May 24, 2020.

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  1. edjisookim

    edjisookim New Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone, I am glad that this community exists even though I am very very new to this. So as most 17 year olds, I used to jack off daily until I heard potentially life-changing benefits. I was sometimes lacking motivation and thought I was giving an easy way out of trying to live the best life through dopamine cheat through masturbation. I am trying to build my body and exercise everyday and also work my hardest in my last year of high school with university applications soon. To gain motivation and perhaps to be more socially confident and better connected with others (keeping female attraction). I always start off a streak with motivation, but I find it incredibly hard not to start touching my piece and you know the rest... So if you are or have been in a similar situation to me is the benefits of nofap really worth it in terms of woman attraction and overall mindset towards life? Because I have had some interactions with girls but not a real serious relationship and I wonder if no porn and no ejaculation may help my interactions with girls. I thought of not letting myself treat to an ejaculation ever without a physical encounter with a girl, but is this approach beneficial? And what are your recommendations to succeeding as a teenager? Because I am so unbelievably horny with constant stiff one and instagram or even snap chatting my female friends are not helping. And how long will a reboot take for me approximately? Thanks!
    BTW I'm on my 5th day as I type this.
     
  2. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    No , NoFap no guarantees to become a playboy, it only give you back a sane attraction for females and more energy for your personal success.

    Definitely yes

    Put limitation on instagramU/facebook/youtube . I utilize it for 4 minutes per day. There're many apps. Block sexy friends. Necessary!
    Limit also your phone use , i use it 1 hour per day.
    So you are forced to meet girls in real life , not in internet.

    from 3 months to years , depends how bad your situation is
     
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  3. George Killian

    George Killian Fapstronaut

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  4. edjisookim

    edjisookim New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for replying. Wow longer than I expected but I will certainly make this lifestyle stick. But does ejaculation without PMO get rid of all the benefits that I was told might come a month down? Is it back to Day 0 or only PMO does that?
     
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  5. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    It's a good question, no , your benefit remains even after a relapse ( ejaculation )
    The day counter does not reflects the change in your mind.

    I'm whitout porn by 6 months , if i relapse and MO , it does not vanifies all the efforts. Even if i look at a sex scene in tv.
    What can vanify all the work done is relapsying many times with porn and definitely edging.
    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm/

    So we must assume relapses are normal part of the journey and engage to quit the triggers .
    However the day counter is a good support to maintain in mind your errors and your growth
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?pages/pmo-counter/
     
  6. edjisookim

    edjisookim New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. I feel much more clarified and less scared, because I was afraid of losing all progress with one ejaculation (without porn)
     

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