It's so sad seeing beautiful girls and getting no response down there

LOLed so loud at this

 

I must ask in this case, what is normal and natural?
Is it normal to get erection instantly when seeing beautiful girl?
Tbh, I dont remember it happening to me ever...

 

My ex was a solid 9/10 blonde and even when she was trying to be sexy in underwear or bare butt naked infront of me I could not get hard due to PIED.
Its so embarrassing, but thats why I'm here. Things have to change.

 

I relly dont know.. Im too long with this shit

 

No its not!
Sometimes you'll get, sometimes you don't. I don't personally remember getting a full hard-on boner at all during my teens/teenage years. Even today, I don't get a boner seeing a beautiful girl all the time. I do get random boners when I think of something sexy. I definitely get boners when someone touches me. It's pretty normal to feel this way. Don't use erections on sight as a benchmark of your progress. It's a pretty bad benchmark.

 

I mean, I think that OP just means the sensation of control that you have when you have a high libido,

That moment when you know that you could perform like a beast.

On my side, slipped recently from a 93 day streak, during days 25-80 was kind of dead penis,

Around days 85+ I was getting occasionally monstrosous erections, that were giving me a lot of confidence and great sensations, nonetheless, I was not in control of them

Just because of how great they felt, I relapsed edging.

My conclusion was that yeah, NoFap works but it takes time.

There is like "another" part of the process that I need to through and that is making my dick understand that if you want to release, you can only do it with a girl during sex, no plan B allowed.

Current Action plan

Now it is the moment to rewire, this I would call the Phase 3

Phase 1 was quitting porn

Phase 2 was achieving 90 days no PM

Phase 3 is about 220 days of no PMO [not even edging]

Phase 4 attempt sex

[Repeat step until success, at this moment you have taught your penis to not seek pleasure and to live peacefully, he is not dead, you just have to teach him that in order to cum and get the dopamine you need to be mating in real life]

Phase 5 enjoy sex and forget about this

I am coming from a path from 2018

This is not easy, but I look back and I do see progress

 

Yeah that makes sense. That is a great feeling indeed, pure self confidence...