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Is the devil real? Getting new addictions!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ghost79, May 24, 2020.

  1. Ghost79

    Ghost79 Fapstronaut

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    Some evil force seems to lure me into trying something new. I started to smoke and another troubling thing is that I have registrated to a dating site. A few women responded to me and wanted to send me porn videos from WhatsApp and offering me sex in return for money. They claim they lost there jobs because of Covid and are unable to pay the rent.
    I admit there offer is tempting but I must not forget why I started nofap in the first place.
    I feel at loss here guys, I need advice.
     
    Last edited: May 26, 2020
  2. False promise

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    Yes the devil is real.. and he manifests through women like those who want you to pay them for porn videos. Stop trying to replace pmo with other sources of instant gratification. Do something productive
     
  3. PerseveranceToday

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    In the words of Cattle Decapitation, "evil has a face, the devil is the human race". :D

    In my opinion rebooting is about a whole lot more than not jerking off. It's about mastering your sexuality. That also means being able to control yourself around women. The truth here hurts, but a lot of women try and manipulate men with their bodies. Some do this by accident, others on purpose. They're trying to manipulate you into giving them money. These women might be spinning a sob story - and it may well be true - but to be honest that is not your concern. It's not your place to help other people unless you have already helped yourself.

    And this is not something you want either way. Think about it, offering sex for money? It's prostitution. Prostitution isn't real sex, it's essentially first person porn. There's no intimacy, no connection. That's why a lot of people go on this journey: so we can properly appreciate sex and true intimacy instead of treating sex as a cheap drug.

    You deserve better.
     
  4. kyumie

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    Never ever pay for a girl which you don't know yet and that even includes a small drink unless you already know them a lot better which would be around date 4-5.
    There are girls who only go after guys for money and those are the one who you need to watch out for.

    Also, just kill one addication at a time mate. If nofap goes well you can go kill the other addication but for now just focus on your nofap.
     
  5. matt2k12

    matt2k12 Fapstronaut

    i wouldnt advocate for killing one addiction at a time, as many of them are interlinked with each other. going cold turkey is the best way to go, unless you are not on heroine or something.
    nofap is a way of giving up pleasure. nicotine and sugars and popsicles and lots of other things give pleasure. if you avoid those, it will be easier to avoid p. as simple as that.
     
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  6. Don't fall for those scams. Try to reach the real women, I mean those who are looking for a date not your money.
    Treat it as spam. Ignore it, delete it.
     
  7. Ghost79

    Ghost79 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah but I'm shocked how beautiful women can still be so immoral. My view on women has been shattered! Ben then again in porn I've seen the same.
     
    Last edited: May 25, 2020
  8. LoveIsAllWeNeed

    LoveIsAllWeNeed Fapstronaut

    They are just as immoral as the men who abuse them in exchange for money. They are after all human, as we are. After all, we're here because we want to get rid of our own immorality.
    In fact, if you think of it, immorality is something everyone knows from his/her own experience except for very young children. So, we'd better not judge beautiful women or any other women or men. It's part of our journey towards becoming better versions of our old selves.
     
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  9. Beamer

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    Please respect each other's opinions in the future and stay on topic.

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