What do you mean by talking to girls?

Thats the thing not a lot of people do it. But the people who do it and are successful gain a massive advantage in the dating world. They see a pretty girl and they take life by reigns and get what they want. A lot of people are noobs and cringey but its the first step to becoming a womanizer. A lot of people epescially this generation of porn use and technology never had the ability to get woman/socialize in the first place. And honestly i think it getting worse with simp culture and people paying hundreds of dollars for girls onlyfans

So how do you get more girls? By talking to them. Where are the girls? Everywhere so you can practice and get better. Its like the gym it takes time to build your social muscle.

The people who you see that are terrible at talking to woman is the same as someone at the gym who has bad form or just starting out. Once they learn to do things right, there no cringe and it looks natural to talk to woman. It doesnt matter where you approach girls its how you do it. If you comfortable and smooth about it, it doesnt matter. Rejection is part of the whole process its not easy but if you do you reap the benefits. Either be like everyone else or go against societal norms and be a baller.

 

Gonna have to agree with Fellatious here, smiling doesn't mean she likes you or is inviting you to talk to her. It's a bit more nuanced than that and takes more body language than to know if its okay to talk to her. On the street I don't think it's okay to to approach a girl if she gives you a glance and you happen to make eye contact and she smiles. A lot of girls smile to avoid awkward or weird situations, it doesn't exactly mean she's into you. Now if you're in a bookstore or a bar and a girl happens to look your way more than once and has a mirthful smile then sure approach, but not on the basis of a single glance.

 

Nope

 

It's less than 3% ^^

 

Coming back to the OP. Well I've been thinking the same thing my entire life. But when I was 22 I met a guy who became my friend and we would often go to bars together, and I watched him do this. He was incredible at it. He would be so aware of his surroundings, of everything that was happening around, and he would take any chance he got to comment on a situation, make a compliment, make a joke. What amazed me is how fast he could react, it would only take him a split second to think of something funny or insightful. Obviously it helped that he was good looking but it doesn't matter for the sake of the exercise.

I was never able to do the same, despite my few attempts. I do think it's something that can be practised though. It just won't happen overnight, especially for someone like me who's naturally an introvert.