Penis size obsession

Maybe one place to start is to get an accurate measurement. 7.5" is HUGE and 5.25" circumference is thicker than average. Are you measuring along the top of your erect penis, from the base to the tip without pressing the ruler into the skin? If you press the ruler into the fatty tissue above the base of the skin that is called the "bone-press method" and it would give most of us an extra half inch or more depending on body fat.

If it helps at all, I'm 4.5 inches long and 5.0 inches circumference which is certainly shorter than average*. If there were rumours about me having a small dick I didn't hear them. Well, at least not in my early twenties . . . But I guess they would have been accurate if there had been rumours. In your case, the rumours were just that, rumours.

Hopefully you can rest assured that your penis is plenty big enough. Sorry about the missed opportunities, but what matters most is what lays ahead. And you've learned what seeing escorts will get you and you've gone 92 days without porn. Sounds to me like you're on the right track and have a bright future ahead of you!

*Studies vary as to what's average, but 5.5 inches (not bone-pressed) is probably the best figure to go by.

 

you should be happy with what u got

 

Lol are you seriously considering 7.5 inches small I think this is just a troll.

 

Agreed. Most people are uncomfortable with themselves. When they see that someone else can be easily provoked, they push that button, often over and over . . . . it's an easy target to direct attention at someone other than themselves.

And . . . look around. The world is filled with hot girls who think they're not good enough and great guys who think they're not good enough somehow. Most of us have at least some insecurities and some of us have a huge disconnect between who we really are and how we perceive ourselves. (It goes the other way, too, with some people having an over-inflated view of themselves). When that disconnect isn't there . . . that is called humility.

You have a big penis. A very big penis, actually. Know that this is true and accept that about yourself. If it's small, shrivelled or just sad-looking when it's flaccid . . . then think of it as your secret weapon. The woman (or women) that you are with will know the truth, and you will know the truth. That's all that matters.

Humility means accepting all parts of yourself, good and bad. If you can get the full picture of yourself, then you can find where you fit in the world and you will know peace. Thinking you have a small penis when you actually have a big one will make you neurotic. You've seen that already. All you have to do now is accept the fact that you have a very big penis and forgive yourself for being so insecure in the past.

Oh, and forgive the girl who started that rumour. She probably thought it was hilarious because she knew it wasn't true.

 

Yeah man I am going through the same thing, with more pornos make me think I had a small dick when I am 7 inches compared to the ones in the pornos, as with the videos of comparing sizes of the really bigger one to the normal size one and saying that the normal doesn’t deserve to have sex, which is quite damaging to a young teen, but man that is really rough that people have said that about you.

 

More proof that porn is a lie. Only 1 out of 90 men have a penis larger than 7 inches. Yet, every porn actor has a big penis. It creates a very unrealistic view of what men have.

 

Yep & causing issues of self image.

 

I am the same as you. I have a really tight scrotum and foreskin. My dick can often look shrivelled up when it is 'on the flop', but I am above average when hard. Unfortunately for us guys there is not much you can do about it. Just have to learn to live with it.

Having said that you could see a possible improvement if you are overweight and you lose the excess fat round the area, or if you are a smoker and you quit.

 

Man you worrying about 7.5 just gave me massive anxiety for some reason :/

 

Yeah, I'm tall too, which is partly why I think I felt even more pressure to have a long one, not 4.5 inches. But, I guess that's life. We get what we get. I happened to get a short and thick one. What I need to remember most is that I am not my penis . . . I am a package deal, and everyone drew a short straw somewhere.

Also, I might have said this before, but everyone has a messed up view of themselves. Humility is accepting yourself as you are. To do that, we need to get an honest assessment of who we are and beware of people who's opinion may be biased in one way or another.

 

LMFAO!

This made me laugh so hard as this thread is all about our "packages"! Sometimes you just got to see the funny side!

 

Interesting read! I see the moral of the story as this: Don't make fun of someone's body. It's darn hurtful, and insults/rumors can stick for years and years even if they aren't true.

I'm so inspired that a bunch of guys can talk about stuff like this. Men talking about their fears like this is really encouraging. We're stronger together.

 

Kegels helps if you want to have a fuller look to your dick when it is flaccid