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Types of porn (possible triggers)

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by MLetho, May 27, 2020.

  1. MLetho

    MLetho Fapstronaut

    I am reading this forum and some types of porn are not known for me. Many of them are disgusting or humiliating for men or even both. So my question is
    There are correlation between type of porn and level of addiction?
    When i was watching porn (over 90 days ago) i prefered porn when man dominates girl. One man one girl, no threesome and shit like that, no rape, no bdsm. Someone can say that normal "porn" (we all know that porn isnt normal).
    I dont talk about my fetishes here but i also think that they are "quite normal"

    Share your opinions and researches (if they are)
    Regards
    Marek
     
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  2. deeroo

    deeroo Fapstronaut

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    Yes, there exists a relation between initial type of porn used(at the start of consumption) and the porn used during the evolution of the addiction.
    One thing that makes porn so great for us is the variety of porn actresses' bodies and the ability of choosing - you can find whatever you want(skinny,fatty,specific body part etc. A fact is that porn users search specific body parts and develop an very high interest in particular aspects like an obsession. You can start denying women because they don't posses some elements - they do not meet the requirements - they become just bad/failed porns). But the reality is not like a mine of diamonds(how are the porn sites), the real word is with good and bad aspects - that's the reality - not all woman are with perfect bodies(personal or induced perfection). That big difference - that discrepancy - can lead the consumers to the act of canceling the real interaction and to a much more use of pornographic materials. It is clear that porn also affects your social life(communication, trust, emotional stability in community). The porn user transform persons( with their) bodies in objects, in extension, simple function that have one purpose - the self satisfaction.
    Also porn can reflect your lacks and show your wishes that aren't satisfied in real life - like in the drug(cocaine, heroin, alcohol etc) use(drug offers the idea/sensation that the situation is fine, the effects temporally mask the reality that isn't accepted). Explain me why there exists humans that are searching and viewing porn movies that involve intercourse with family members - like mother, sister, dad. Mother is the first love of a human, the first and probably the critical element of the future self-development.
    I wrote some post about this things. One is with the last conversation with serial killer Ted Bundy before his death. He is talking about pornography and how he was trying to hit bigger and bigger levels of intensity in violence and dominance elements in porn. This is an extreme case, but only extreme cases (in some situations) can make us to understand the gravity of the impacts of actions. You do not pay attention to the people who tell you that smoke tobacco affects your sportive performances, you pay attention to the people who tell you that smoking can kills you through lung cancer, mouth cancer etc etc. You do not pay attention to the people who tell you that masturbation reduces the testosterone levels in your body, you pay attention to the people who tell you that porn affects your brain in severe ways(like brain fog, like inability of cognitive functions). That's the human's nature-we are more receptive on bad.

    There are some posts of mine that you can find useful:
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...lity-to-learn-new-things.278377/#post-2565371 posts #12 & #13
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/porn-is-a-joke.276392/#post-2549020 posts #8 & #9
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...-with-murderer-ted-bundy.276466/#post-2539576

    And about research... You have access to this forum - read stories; I know that requires effort - but you can read like 50 posts - then you can find common behaviors... Hope you find my post useful.

    shortcut - the final answer - YES!
     
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  3. MLetho

    MLetho Fapstronaut

    Thanks so much for your answer
    Now i know that i am not so bad case. Now i have to stay no PMO (p for ever, rest idk) for longer time.

    Regards
    Marek
     
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  4. BruceD

    BruceD Fapstronaut
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    Yes I agree on how certain fetishes are addictive. Does not have to even be porn proper. I have seen that Ted Bundy interview and I will say I take it with a grain of salt. He likes to grandstand and deflect, but I am sure some of that is true. Thankfully as his case, only a tiny fraction of porn users go as far as he did.
     
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