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I'm new here. I just found out about Nofap. I am truly in need of help on how to quit masturbation.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Gregminds007, May 26, 2020.

  1. Gregminds007

    Gregminds007 Fapstronaut

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    I have been masturbating since i was 12 , I'm gonna be 26 in June. I masturbate almost every day of the week , sometimes 2 to 3 times daily , its affecting my life, I'm finding it hard to be self confident, i try hard to look normal in a crowd of both men and women, i think its also affecting my physical appearance , i have never gained any weight or muscle evn when i tried to work out. It affects my sex life also i find it hard to last in bed i had to result in using enhancememt drugs . Masturbation has also affected my level of thinking, i hardly think of productive things, as any little thing could just trigger my urge. Please help !!! I need advices on how to tackle this. If theres anyone who has faced similar issues out here, kindly reach out to me on how to overcome this disgusting act. Thanks
     
  2. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to nofap!

    My suggestions:
    * Wear briefs (not boxerbriefs) instead of boxers. This keeps everything secure, and not flopping around where you can be tempted/distracted.
    * Keep a schedule for your day and don't have unstructured time where you can be distracted/tempted. Make sure you're reading, or going for a walk, or talking to a friend, or getting some work done, and not just lazing around.
     
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  3. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap!!!
     
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    | Nico | Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    Welcome to the community mate, glad you could join us :) any questions or concerns please dont hesitate to ask us. All the best, take care
     
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  6. refin'ed

    refin'ed Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the community.
    I would suggest not to fight your cravings and just observe being neutral. Try to divert yourself from it but not resist it. Resisting would increase the problem.
     
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  7. LoveIsAllWeNeed

    LoveIsAllWeNeed Fapstronaut

    Welcome my friend, I wish you all the best.
    As an intro, watch this Your Brain On Porn video. I suggest making a journal, write about your progress and read success stories. Keeping you motivation is key.
    Good luck.
     
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  8. Gregminds007

    Gregminds007 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a lot, this if fully noted
     
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  9. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    You're very welcome, best of luck!
     
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  10. Winner1237

    Winner1237 Fapstronaut

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    u first need to know that nothing is impossible, how difficult it may seem in the beginning it will get easier. illd say the first 30 days are the most difficult, but after like 1-2 months it gets much easier, youll get accustomed to not fapping in contrast to fapping so you will not ''count ur days'' if u understand what i mean. so how to get through the first month? well the solution is psyhological as i always say. u cant just think that im gonna do nofap from today and onwards. trust me that will not 100% work cuz youll 100% face temptation. Therefore u have to take precautions and be ready to face the temptation and swallow it to be a winner. top 3 tips: never be alone, download apps or programs that block triggers, get addicted to productive things such as gym, studying, working extra etc. For example how do many ppl spend their weekened? instead of partying, wasting time, drinking alcohol, and being sorrounded by half naked girls by whom we will be triggered to m, is it not better to occupy ourselves with and extra job and make some money?;)
     
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  11. Gregminds007

    Gregminds007 Fapstronaut

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    True. Thanks a lot
     
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  12. Winner1237

    Winner1237 Fapstronaut

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    no problem just continue posting here and update:D
     

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