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The problem of Night fall

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Emperorask, May 30, 2020.

  1. Emperorask

    Emperorask Fapstronaut

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    Hello friends, from the last few weeks a thought is always wondering in my mind and I can't really try to get rid of it. This problem is about nightfall. When I started my nofap journey( I am on a hard mode) I was a bit confident about myself and felt proud of my decision. But eventually, I experienced nightfall on day 7. I thought that since it is beginning it might happen so I didn't worry much. But now since I am on day 37 I got nightfall on day 35. After this nightfall the next day I felt that that the energy which was being accumulated inside my body is being reduced since the event. I am afraid whether I will lose all my hard-earned nofap benefits just because of damn nightfall. Please help me to deal with the problem of nightfall by giving me some tips or remedies.
     
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  2. There's no tips, this is a lie my friend. We all get better by what we are doing in this time, not by the time itself.
    Nofap gives you freedom and energies, up to you how to use them.
    You can feel like this, but it's just how you feel right now.
    I mean if you were doing X push ups a week ago, and you didn't stopped the training, no matter the nightfall, you will do them anyway, and for others benefits too.
    It's just mental my friend. Keep strong
     
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  3. False promise

    False promise Fapstronaut

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    It’s a big problem. It’s important to make sure you take a piss before bed and get up in the middle of night if you have to. Full bladder causes wet dreams. Also you must traIn your mind to shut down all sexual thoughts throughout the day. If you fantasize at all and especially if you edge, you will be more prone to wet dreams. Lastly if you believe in God or a religion you can pray before bed asking to prevent them.
     
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  4. Emperorask

    Emperorask Fapstronaut

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    Thank you very much it is really a good solution but I am afraid that if I stop thinking about sex completely then how can I crack nonveg jokes and hang out with friends who especially wait for it. Besides many of my friends are girls who like my jokes and if I stopped thinking about it then I might not be as interesting as I used to be so what do you think?
     
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  5. False promise

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    Well that’s definitely the first time I’ve heard that response. I would say 2 things.
    1) You shouldn’t place your value as a person on your ability to make sexual jokes.
    2)Its not so much about thinking about sex in that way.. as in making a sexual joke about a situation. It’s about fantasizing about sex. However, it’s possible making those jokes could keep sex on your mind a little too much. That’s up for you to figure out.
     

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