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Lonely

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Alaa_al_kadi, May 28, 2020.

  1. Alaa_al_kadi

    Alaa_al_kadi Fapstronaut

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    I feel lonely and I blame porn whenever I watch it makes me go insane.
    I had a big argument with my parents about money and now they won't talk to me and all my brothers won't talk to me I feel like shit.
    I wish this pain would go away
     
  2. I have a pretty shitty day as well. Lost all my friends, been sick for so long. Getting no support from the gov. It all just seems to go to hell.

    At least you are not the only person dealing with some shit atm.

    We are a horde. Watch some motivational videos. Shit will happen all the time. In the end the only thing that matters is if you can deal with it or not.
     
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  3. Alaa_al_kadi

    Alaa_al_kadi Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for the kind words.
    I read it several times so it would encourage me,and to be honest I woke up this morning early feeling suicidal I do not know why.
     
  4. Cioxim

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    Why do you feel suicidal?

    Your parents are arguing to you about money? My Mother loaned me almost $20,000 over the past few years. She never says a thing but obviously I have to repay her that is definitely a feeling that hurts for me. And dealing with covid and the oil economy.

    How old are you? Have kids? Anything really tying you down to where you are?
     
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  5. Azarel Jason

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    Have a nap, ease your mind and wake up restored. Your not alone, we all might be in different locations around the planet, but we all suffer together and also grow together. You won't get throug a proper fight without some wounds, but they will eventually heal and be simple scars reminding you that you did indeed take the fight. You won, and you got evidence to show it!

    Money, sex, power, the 3 evil sins leading to all other problems, and the reasons behind all suffering.

    Look into the opposition of those 3 forces, focus on that and the fruits of your life will grow.

    Love from Scandinavia <3
     
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  6. Alaa_al_kadi

    Alaa_al_kadi Fapstronaut

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    Mother dead only dad alive
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    If I got sick today probably no one will know
     
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  7. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

    Hope you are doing better?
     
  8. Alaa_al_kadi

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    Hi still holding with NoFap I didn't relapse.
    But I am sleepy all the time and I don't want to go out of the door, I force myself out of bed.
    Even if I was with someone all I want to do is to be alone at home.
    What advice do you have for me, I feel like I am loosing my mind.
     
  9. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

    Sorry, to hear this. I personally go out for walks and buy food essentials. It helps to exercise aswell.
     
  10. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    I am sorry you feel lonely. Do you have friends? Maybe give them a call.

    Also don't give up on nofap. There is a light at the end of the tunnel
     
  11. HYJ0713

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    feeling lonely as well. binging on food and sometimes PMO seems a way out for me. but im trying to stay away from all these shit. Hope we all get better.
     
  12. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

    Have you guys looked into get an Accountability Partner if you think that will work for you?
    I am sure there is many on this site.
     
  13. Alaa_al_kadi

    Alaa_al_kadi Fapstronaut

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    Still holding on nofap.
    Nothing changed really but I feel I could continue this, and stand up to life, I am more willing to adapt and make no consence, I feel ultimately some doors will open to me, some new chances and I will be waiting for them with no sins and a lot of energy I hope
     
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  14. vercent99

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    i hope the best for u mate. if u need someone to talk to i am here, please dont do any bad thing to yourself !
     
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  15. Alaa_al_kadi

    Alaa_al_kadi Fapstronaut

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    Thank you very much
    You have a good heart
    God bless your soul
     
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  16. Alaa_al_kadi

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    A quick update, my mood is getting better, I started reading some books mentioned here, enjoying music, getting out more with some friends, hiking in nature, a new beginning it seems hope it will lead to happiness
     
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  17. Alaa_al_kadi

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    As it seems this thread is turning into a journal, today was a good day with some friends hiking in nature having fun talking, my problems didn't get resolved but started to get much less space in my mind, the best part is when I was in a store buying food some girl started hitting on me and talking to me with no effort made by me, it was long time ago that this happened to me, it made me feel happy.
     
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