Sissy Hypno. I need help.

You should stop doing these things for real asap. Please send me a PM.

 

My first exposure to P was something pretty bad too. Its fucked up but I try to use that to motivate me to get rid of all P forever. Make sure you continue the good habits you've built, they really help you through the bad times of addiction.

 

You should try to do a reboot as soon as possible. As fedmom said, you should stop watching these videos as soon as possible. In my experience and many others', you should stop watching porn altogether. Not even "light" content because that will almost certainly lead you to the same kind of videos you're addicted to. This is a very serious matter. As with you, when I was a child I used to do very well on school and I used to be somewhat extoverted as well. I didn't understand at the time, but pornography and masturbation made me insecure and full of fear of other people. On my NoFap journey I've gained a lot of my confidence back when doing my streaks. I'm sure this will help you.

I recommend you do some challenges available on the forum. For instance, I recommend this challenge posted by 2525: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/3-challenge-the-three-days-challenge.173158/

You can navigate to 7-day, 14-day and above through the first post.

I also recommend reading about how to reboot successfully or how to quit masturbation and pornography (M and P).

 

Your friend was a bad influence. The best you can do now is NoFap. If you are convinced you are straight then a good streak should bring back your libido for girls.

 

@moveforward welcome to the community, glad you could join us, wish you all the best on your journey, and congrats for your 5 days.

 

Everyone's story is different, your feminization fetish really seems to be porn-induced, I think mine isn't, but the end result is the same. As you said, you were on good tracks being busy, going to the gym etc, until that weekend when you were home alone. I think that's the main factor with those addictive fetishes.
To be honest, I'm not sure about fedmom's swearing method in particular, might as well try it out (I haven't yet).
But the thinking behind it makes sense to me. From my experience, anything that pumps up your serotonin levels and makes you less depressed (typically sport, doing things outside, working on an important project) will keep submission fetishes at bay. I've had months without those fantasies at particular times in my life, and it correlates pretty well with less depression and anxiety. In those times I didn't even think about it, it was effortless, I didn't have to repress anything.
If you know the pattern, you have a way out.
And don't beat yourself up for giving in at times, otherwise you may be tempted to discard all your past efforts and relapse for good. Perfection is a nasty, harmful concept.

 

Also a short but good read: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...1706/overcoming-sex-addiction-self-help-guide

There seems to be strong evidence in favor of CBT as far as professional help goes.

 

CMON BUDDY YOU CAN OVERCOME THIS. Please, start fucking taking a cold shower, meditating and exercising every day. Do everything but not this shit, gain tools and the right mindset, LEARN FROM EVERY MISTAKE YOU DO. I had felt again to similar shit(I am addicted to femdom but I understand how dark is this sissy fetish and I am sorry that you have it) but now after 5 days I am standing again and I am sure that I can beat this pathetic shit. Understand you are craving not humiliation but dopamine. Your dopamine craving is related to these humiliation shit. You try to hide your emotions with these shit, you try to run from real life, but running from it you are destroying your life. Try to face the life, please. Invest time to defeat this. Get even rid of stupid internet, all those triggers and stimulus which you lead to do this stupid shit. You can try writing there journal, find there friends who would help you. I am bored of this shit, I want to kill all of these stupid bitchtresses, I don't want to see anymore any of these stupid addictions there and I am sorry that I can't help anyhow... I just hate that you people suffer from these stupid cruel things.

"1. Will acting on this temptation bring me long-term satisfaction or instant gratification?

2. What will be the end result if I act on this temptation?

3. If I choose to act on this temptation will it make my life better or worse?

4. Do I take 100% responsibility for my own actions or do I blame others and make excuses?

5. Can the addicted part of my brain force me to act out against my will?

6. Is there a part of me that wants to walk away from this?

7. Can I choose to follow that part that wants to walk away?

8. Is there a feeling of peace that will come to me if I walk away?

9. Would I feel better about myself tomorrow if I didn’t act out today?

10. Will I honor the rational part of my brain that is encouraging me to walk away from this temptation?"

It isn't mine but I have achieved my second biggest streak with only this.

 

I managed to get rid of sissy fetish, you can PM me.

 

We can all agree that femdom and sissy stuff is not natural. Porn and Masturbation weaken you over a longer period of time, therefore you have the energy and willpower of being the dominated one. Get rid of this as soon as you can. Many have escaped the same problem on this site, they are able to help.

 

Can you give a brief description on how you did that here for all of us?

 

Does hypnosis really work?

 

Doing irl sissy activities (crossdressing, sex obviously) is worst, then chats and hypnos then sissy porn. Everything that encourage us to live sissy lifestyle must be purged - all irl actions, chats and hypnos especially. At the same time recovering addict should improve confidence and sense of self worth, because this fetish feeds on lack of confidence and false idea that sissification makes addict more sexually desireable.

So purge everything that makes sissy desires stronger and work on yourself. Also the belief that sissification is irreversible is false and obviously comes from sissy hyonons and porn and was designed to make them stronger.

It works when subject wants it to work.

 

You are exposed to nasty things way to early.... You must go for nofap rigorously

 

Have you seen the thread in my profile? Sissy fetish is just sexual masochism so you might be able to get rid of it with a 5-htp supplement although I tried one myself and it did not do anything for me. I should have said it might have been a poor supplement.

 

this hypnos shit just works if you want it to work, if its working in you, it's because you want it to work, you have to stop seeing this shit go nofap for few months and after do mo once a week, do not try test to know if you already cured because it's a racionalization of a desire in your brain, ignore that and keep strong

 

Go out and meet people man. Either male or female. Just talk to them, just get the hell out there in the world. A lot of this nasty sick-twisted-minded fetishes come from spending WAAAAAAY TOO MUCH TIME ON THE INTERNET AND ALONE IN YOUR ROOM/PARENT'S HOUSE. Sign up for a gym membership. Or even better, go and take some martial arts classes. Go and do something masculine, in a masculine environment. Make some career, financial, personal and spiritual goals that will develop you as a man, that will make you a modern warrior so you can stand tall among others, the way that it was supposed to be for men. The thing is that many guys that have this kind of problem grew up in a fatherless environment, without a real man showing them how things work and things that you are suppose to do for yourself and conduct yourself as a man in this world.