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Fetishes

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Jun 10, 2020.

  1. In my time with porn i never had a permanent fetish, i would jump from one fetish to another in course of time.
    In start, i had foot fetish, then legs fetish, booty fetish, slave fetish, leggings fetish, bdsm, i even watched scat videos one time it was very disgusting and never watched again, girls with strapon, in last transwoman and jOI fetish.
    These two, transwoman and JOI, are i'm currently trying to get rid of. I've some control over transwoman fetish now, in past transwoman porn was very strong on me, but now Thank God i don't watch it.
    JOI and humiliation are i'm dealing with. My brain tricks for JOI because there is no nudity in it.
    Anyone who had successfully given up transwoman and Joi and humiliation, please share how to stop it.
     
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  2. i had many humiliating fetishes such as cuckolding, sissy stuff, joi, humiliation etc but now even tho i'm still very addicted to porn, i can't be aroused by it, in fact when i see an humiliating joi it just makes me laugh.... I'm not sure how i managed to do that, but that maybe because i've watch stuff that make me feel good about myself AND most importantly, because i don't want to encourage you to watch porn obviously, exercise and think positevely about yourself, it worked pretty well for me.
     
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  3. iwontfail67

    iwontfail67 Fapstronaut

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    Sissy stuff is the worst of the worst. It tries to rip apart your sexual identity and turn you into a slave with the only purpose of doing escalating and disgusting things. In my opinion all those humiliation fetishes and stuff like porn induced hocd which usually accompanies these fetishes are pretty much the embodiment for inferiority and low self esteem. Simply stop reinforcing it by watching it/relapsing to it. And DO NOT think about it every day of your life to make sure you still don't find it attractive. You can go on a 1000 day streak of no PMO but if you continuously think about the shit you don't like to make sure you still don't like it, it will always have power over you. Whenever it comes into your mind do not react.
     
  4. Desire is fluid, especially when you can endlessly link from one video to the next. On the internet in the world of porn I am a total kinkster. In meat space with a woman I am pretty fucking vanilla. If you are fortunate enough to have had sex with someone you actually like, you realize the people making porn are doing it wrong. Unfortunately, that realization isn't enough to make the porn habit go away. I maintained a secret porn habit throughout the most exciting sexual relationship of my life, a habit that eventually destroyed that relationship.

    The details of what a person looks for while searching for pornography say a lot more about their sense of self-worth than what it is they actually want to do in bed.
     
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  5. fredisthebes

    fredisthebes Fapstronaut

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    Porn fetishes are not the same as 'real' ones, although of course one can lead the the other if you let it. What looks exciting on the screen can be unappealing in 'person' - and conversely, what can be very exciting in person can be very dull acted out by pornstars on screen. You need to work out what you both mutually enjoy, with a real lover, it's not something you can work out in your own brain (with or without the use of porn).

    Reboot and start dating real women, then take it from there. You're sexual tastes are probably a lot more 'normal' than you think!
     
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  6. Thank you.
    I'm also at a point where humiliating disgust me now, bdsm makes me uncomfortable and cuckholding and sissy stuff i don't like at all.
     
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  7. I never like sissy stuff nor have i watched it. Yes! It makes doubt ones sexual identity. Though i've humiliating joi porn, but now i have bit control over it.
     
  8. I never had sex with someone i like.
    I'm trying my level best to stop porn of any kind.
    transwoman and joi were my kicks, but now i don't watch transwoman porn and joi porn very rarely, if i get hookup by lust and urge.
     
  9. I'm rebooting and un-wiring my brain what porn taught me.
    It's hard but, i have to do it and i'm doing it.
     
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