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Ten Fapstronauts Journey

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by NeverWalkAlone, Jun 5, 2020.

  1. Sheidheda

    Sheidheda Fapstronaut

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    @NeverWalkAlone Thank you just completed day 2 and I'd like to go through this journey with you guys
     
  2. NeverWalkAlone

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    Calm down my dear friend and give yourself enough time to get on the road properly.
    Just think why you relapsed, and then think why do you want to go on this road.
    NEVER GIVE UP
     
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  3. NeverWalkAlone

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  4. FlowingSaiyan

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    I had a few urges today, but I quickly distracted myself. Did some work as well. Only 3 days left for 2 weeks:D:D:D. I hope everyone is doing well.
     
  5. I understand that but I can't commit to posting on here every single day in some situations. So if that's a requirement, I'm out.
     
  6. NeverWalkAlone

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    I know some situations are exceptional, but consider that finding a couple of minutes to post daily or every two days will help you and help the other members motivation a lot. My best wishes for you if you'd like to go on.
     
  7. Obviously posting will help other members but if a person can't post every single day, I disagree if you are saying that's the difference in failure/success. Now you are commenting that every two days is ok and that's basically what I did when I posted on Friday when I joined the group and again on Monday. I couldn't post because it was the weekend and I was busy. Seems like you need to define what is make or break better when defining your member rules. But again, I can't commit to every single day, sorry.
     
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  8. Sheidheda

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  9. Griitings

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    Guys I am really having challenges with urges. I relapsed again. Convincing myself that I will not fall is not really helping. I think I have to have some more strategies. I'm considering a porn blocker for my devices. Please if you know of a very good porn blocker kindly let me know.
     
  10. Amstrang

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    Hey plz add me also
    It's my 3rd day and today morning I got very strong urges and I opened a porn site but instead of doing something bad I just watched and realised that I'm doin wrong
    Now I'm feeling very confident that I can win this battle
    Plz add me also
     
  11. Restarting from day 0. I hope I will be able to overcome the urges this time.
     
  12. NeverWalkAlone

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    @The Dark Wolf @Griitings
    Hello my friends, I know this experience very well when I tried to stop porn for a while, then my brain tricked me to relapse. after then my brain wanted to ensure that it is rewiring itself back to porn by a clever trick.

    This trick is simply making you feel horribly depressed and miserable every time you relapse so that you can't stand with it, your brain gives you a fake solution to release higher dopamine levels, this solution is porn.
    Please be careful of this infinite cycle that I've got stuck into too many times, not realizing its truth.

    One solution I might offer to start again on the road is:
    1- Create a simple new routine that includes early sleeping and waking up times.
    2- Write down any thing that lets you feel angry, stressed (it may be love, work, your body shape ...) and think how to deal with this, even if you don't know how to deal with it, it is really comforting to write down our thoughts and feelings on a piece of paper, you can try it.
     
  13. NeverWalkAlone

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    Welcome my dear friend, you're coming to join this group which means you are a really brave man who wants to change his life, promoted to START REBOOTING PROCESS
     
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  14. NeverWalkAlone

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    Very nice man, go on
    promoted to START REBOOTING PROCESS
     
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  15. NeverWalkAlone

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    Day 6 completed:
    I had night shift at work, no urges to be considered, I'm 1 day far from completing phase 2.
    Although I didn't workout at home for 3 days, but I recommend exercising and eating healthy, it helps us to be more confident and that's very important on this life challenge.
     
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  16. Griitings

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    Thank you very much.
     
  17. FlowingSaiyan

    FlowingSaiyan Fapstronaut

    DAY 12
    I thought of relapsing today. I am building a new website, and since I am just starting, it feels kinda overwhelming at times, as it did today. So what did I think of? Masturbation. Even though just for a small amount of time, but I was actually even deciding should I M with or without P. So yeah, the urges got control of me. But when you have double digits in your day count, it becomes a bit difficult to relapse, at least for me because I had been waiting to get over 10 days for quite some time. And so I resisted. Got a workout in and listened to some songs to get my mood right. After that, the urges were pretty much gone.
     
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  18. Griitings

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    Great to hear. Keep staying on the right path.
     
  19. Sheidheda

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    Day 4 completed
     
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  20. NeverWalkAlone

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    That's perfect. You are a real hero my friend.
     
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