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Hypersexuality questions and paraphilia behavior

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Bobbys2103, Jun 15, 2020.

  1. Bobbys2103

    Bobbys2103 Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I have been a long time lurker in these forums since age 14. I always struggled with hyper sexual and paraphilia behaviors. I first discovered masturbation at age 12. Ever since then I have done it up to 10 or more times a day. I was abler to control its for a few months recently, only doing it once every few days, with my longest abstinence period being 11 days. But now I am slipping back in to my old behaviors. I often have very bizarre fantasies and feel great shame after I climax. I am also wondering if my downright excessive masturbation throughout my puberty may have stunted my penis growth and damaged my androgen receptors. Can anyone give some insight onto this? I will answer any questions.
     
  2. I had some of the same issues growing up , I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 12 years old, I also had some hypersexuality and watched a lot of porn from a young age, I found out later on in my mid 20s that my testosterone level was in the 95th percentile so it was high . This was even during pied , issues that were created by porn.

    When I was a teen I had an insane sex drive when you have some hypersexuality in your makeup , your much more likely to abuse porn and from a young age. Wether you like it or not years of that eventually wears your brain thin . And people begin to escalate to more and more extreme stuff just to get the same drive. It's how the brain works , but staying the fuck away from it, fight your compulsions around hypersexuality and let your brain and body recover and eventually you will return to the way you where and the way you where supposed to be.

    You didn't kill your androgen receptors , you fried your dopamine, your androgens are being used , you just never abstain long enough to correct your hunger and sex drive .

    And no you did not stunt your dick growth

    Porn addiction is not good for dick size sex drive , hard on quality , and how easily you are aroused and how long you can stay.

    Chronic pmo will shrink you up , and can weaken your hard ons.

    But it's quite simple , stop or at least take breaks.

    No word of a lie , when I stopped porn a while back and quit smoking , I was surprised by what size my dick actually is and gets to.

    In my teens and mid 20s I always had good hard size , 7.5
    But because of porn it varied.
    When a smoker and constantly watching porn, soft I though I was a grower . When I quit smoking and everything else , I was sitting at 5 inches soft with good girth .

    Mate you need to clean up your lifestyle . If your test level is high and you have compulsions around porn because of hypersexuality you need to know you have extra challenges but seriously the only way to fix this and get a bit of a shock is stay the fuck away. I'm going through some issues still with this , and it's bloody difficult. But what's the alternative, I can tell you now continuing down that road will only continue to make it worse . As hard as the road will be ahead you need to rise above the pale and recover.

    I can tell you now if you continue down that road life begins to lose all meaning . Don't ruin yourself .

    Hypersexuals probably go through ungodly amounts of porn and it definitely eventually has an effect on your brain . You wouldn't actually believe the course your sexual health can go.

    There's guys online who've watched so much porn they think they've turned gay . There are gay women and men who think there straight .

    Porn can fuck you about abit overtime , desensitise you to your natural biological sexuality and straight dudes begin to wire there brains to trans porn, because it's new to your brain , and it actually looks like a female , that's the fucking direction hypersexuality and pmo addiction can take you .

    Porn actually increases that sexuality so staying away to recover makes not watching easier .

    It's fucking damn near impossible, but for the love of you need to stay away from it and you will see big improvements , you have to be actively black balling it on a daily basis
     
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  3. Bobbys2103

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    When you say insane sex drives during the hight of your addicition. how often would you say you were beating it? and did you get morning wood during these periods?
     
  4. 5 /6 times a day , still got morning wood. never actually counted ,
     
  5. Bobbys2103

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    Hmm right now I am about to be 17, After a 4 tab acid trip I wanted to quit pro forever. My dick has looked a lot healthier it was always soft when masturbation even. I can't help but think I have stunted my penis size potential and facial potential due to constant prolactin release from orgasming.
     
  6. Bobbys2103

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    I mean can it really grow properly while the growth plates are open if it is constantly being broken down and abused?
     
  7. fedmom

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    What kind of porn is it?
     
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  8. Bobbys2103

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    I am straight but used to have giant woman fantasies and fantasies of being a sissy and being humiliated and being an inferior man.
     
  9. fredisthebes

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    The good news is - and read the success stories section for inspiration - almost every problem caused by pmo addiction can be reversed, given enough time. Although you are much more likely to be successful if you tackle it now - believe me, after you have been an addict for 20 years, after you can point to failed relationships and missed opportunities due to your addiction, after you have struggled to pay off debts caused by your addiction, etc. it becomes phenomenally difficult to overcome. But it is not permanent, you can change and so can I.
     
  10. fedmom

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    Please send me a PM.
     
  11. Bobbys2103

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    how do I do that?
     
  12. fedmom

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    It's okay I sent you a PM. Hope it works :)
     
  13. Envoy-ofthe-End

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    I´ve had this problem as well where I was daily jacking off all day and still got morning wood in spite of being tired. This actually stunts your manly features from coming in and it takes longer. Up until I was 21 people still thought I looked 16. Around 25 my jawline started getting defined and now I can cut steel with it and now at 27 I´m slowly growing facial hair when I had a pitiful mustache for a long time. The more you abstain and more you retain your seed the manlier you´ll feel and the stronger you´ll be.
     

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