My Top Tips in Curing De-Sensitisation From Prone Masturbation!

Only now, reading this site, I discover that what I have been doing my entire life is prone masturbation. My case is also very peculiar, in which I have masturbated prone my entire life, could never reach orgasm any other way, but still got married and had kids.
I started humping mattress as an infant and continued masturbating like this my entire life. When I was around 10 or 11 years old some friends told me they masturbated rubbing their penises with their hands, I tried but got no pleasure, so I continued with prone.

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I never had any girlfriend and was completely virgin until I was 24, when I met a girl who was also a complete virgin. We had "sex" by having her come over me, she would rub her vagina on my penis, she could reach orgasm by doing this. This gave me pleasure but not an orgasm, after she finished I would prone masturbate and reach orgasm. We got married and did like this for some years, none of us was interested in penetration as we had our own way to reach orgasm. For her it was not a problem as she never knew any other sexual experience. Then we decided to have kids, at first it was a problem, I can have erections without problem but I can't orgasm and ejaculate in a penetration. So I started by masturbating prone and when I felt I was about to ejaculate I would fastly penetrate her. After a couple of months of practice I managed to master this and get her pregnant, and we could have 2 kids. My wife's sexual desire has completely vanished in the last 3 years so we aren't doing this anymore.

I am a masturbation addict and continue masturbating prone. I am trying to stop and am now reaching longer streaks (until recently I couldn't go past 3 days, hardly more than 1 week). I have no intention to masturbate the normal way, I am just trying to stop completely.

 

I used to sleep on my belly since I was an infant until some years ago, now I sleep on my back. So I think there be a relation.

 

Hey.

Can I get just like 60 days of nofap and from there start masturbation without porn?

I don't want to get back to porn at all. To be honest not even masturbation, but will do if I have to.

I want to go a few months free of everything to let my brain, dick and testicles rest and cool down.

I did Porn, but from 2 or 4 years ago (really don't know for how long), but definitely not from the beginning.

 

My suggestion would be to recondition your brain. Watch videos on youtube, fortunately there are some YouTubers that are talking about it now. Inbox me and i ll guide you further on this. I don't think anyone's case was any worse than mine

 

Gonna jump in here. 19 year old about 1 week into nofap. started prone at 14, noticed issues with orgasm about a year ago. I suffer from DE but not ED (something that I’m sure would crop up if I continued prone) and most times, in sexual encounters with women (I’m not a virgin), and when attempting conventional masturbation, I approach orgasm in a normal period of time (7-10min) but can never finish, which I now attribute to my prone masturbation. I never thought of myself as addicted to porn (previously masturbated 3 times a week, but obv would still like to get it to 1). Is it better to just continue going forward with nofap or to shift to what has been suggested here? Obviously, masturbating is easier, but which method offers the quickest path to normality, and around how long would that take?

 

Thanks for your post, it has given me belief!

I am a 31 year old circumcised man who has been masturbating prone for around 16/17 years. Only around 7/8 years ago, I started having sex more regularly and realised I had an issue. Getting/maintaining my erection has never been a problem (luckily by the sounds of it) and I can stay erected for a long time, and although I do pre cum, I can never get any further when with a girl, and obviously I wasn't happy with this. I want to change this now, recently I went 21 days without any kind of masturbation, tried with my hand and didn't get anywhere near orgasm, couldn't feel too much. I then waited another week and the same feeling, 28 days so I gave in and resorted to prone.

I'm now 9 days down with no prone, but I really don't know what to do in terms of how long I should wait before trying by hand? Because I feel no sensitivity, I do understand alot of time may be needed to first cum by masturbating by hand but I don't feel anything even trying for 30 mins plus, is this normal and should I just carry on? Just in limbo here what to do, do I try by hand or do I just go cold turkey for 60 days and then try?

Thanks!

 

These stories are very encouraging but I need some personal advice. I've been masturbating prone since probably around 10 years old. I am 22 now. I have no problems with an erection. I can stay hard forever but I cant cum. I've been with two girls and when they give me head no matter how long I cannot cum and I know girls feel good when they make a guy cum. I thought that if I had sex I would be able to cum. But that also has not worked, had sex with both of them and could not cum no matter how long. Unfortunately both of those relationships didnt pan out.

Now I've got a new girl and she hasn't given me head or anything yet. Because of quarantine I haven't seen her in a month and a half. This past month I decided that I would finally stop prone and learn the conventional method so that I can cum with a girl. Unfortunately I have been unable to cum. I also haven't watched porn in the past month because I dont want to do that anymore. In order to masturbate I use nudes that this current girl sends me and we also sext a fair amount. I haven't told her about my inability to cum and I am scared to. It's embarrassing telling someone that you cant cum because you hump your bed. Told a guy friend once and it was the worst mistake of my life. The past two girls were understanding but its still embarrassing.

Not being able to cum without prone is getting to my head. I want to have kids in the future and this makes me afraid that I won't be able to because I was so dumb as a teenager. Afraid that I have done real damage to my ejaculatory duct.

In the past month I've tried to masturbate about 10 times. One time for about an hour. Each time I get precum and when I grab my penis to go faster I lose my erection and I have to build up to an erection again. In real life just making out gives me an erection so I know I dont have an erection problem. At some points it does feel good but I just cant reach that thresh hold to cum. Wondering if anyone could give some advice on my mindset, technique or anything else?

 

Sorry guys i have been away for a while but just so you know, my wife's pregnancy test came positive 3 days ago. I am freling happiest and content with life now. Please continue your struggle this is worth it guys. Trust me

 

Hello, I’m a gay male and I’ve been Prone masturbating since I was 13-14 and now I’m 29. I came across this page last week and took the advice of abstaining (took a lot of will power especially in the morning) however I tried the conventional way just an hour ago only 6 day’s in, and for the first time I ejaculated and orgasmed without prone!! I feel this new sensitivity happening with my penis and I’m very excited. Took maybe more then 20 minutes, but as soon as I saw something that really aroused me, it happened pretty quickly. My only concern is death grip? I did hold a bit tight but only enough to feel how hard my penis was, and it turns me on if there’s a little grip. I just hope I did it correctly. I wanna get this right.

 

Be careful about prone exercises though because they could give people coregasms.

 

Hi all,

I wanted to share my story of an initial successful switch from prone to give people here some hope who perhaps like me have been doing prone since a very young age).

I am 29 years old and started M using prone when I was below 10 years old (i.e. 2 decades ago!!!!!) and up until last Tuesday I have never M with anything but prone.

Find the full story here:
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...-masterbation-after-20-years-men-only.281405/