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Please help me

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ascodel, Jun 20, 2020.

  1. Ascodel

    Ascodel New Fapstronaut

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    I 'm a 17 year old guy,
    Heloo, i have a relationship with a girl, 4 months.
    I never ever feel horny/aroused or attracted and she is so beautiful and hot, i need to stimulate myself to get a semi hard , but just semi hard (70%) , kissing her, touching, or anything doesn t get me not even semi, when she give me blowjob after i jerk off myself is hard to mentain and remain semi. Morning woods are weak 50% hard, and like 2-3 times per week and i never ever had erections throughout the day , just in the morning and with stimulation.
    NOFAP can help ? She want to lose her virginity with me soon, do you think i will be able to penetrate her with a semi hard? she will feel same pleasure even if it is not Fully hard?
     
  2. Dre17

    Dre17 New Fapstronaut

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    Bro you need to work on that because one way she'll find out one way or another and if she's the one she'll help you through this
    You need to fix this bro
     
  3. You perhaps have PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction). Or maybe just Natural Erectile Dysfunction. NoFap will tremendously help in any of those cases. Also, NoFap will make you a better human being. NoFap literally has limitless benefits. NoFap IS THE BEST. So yeah, in short, Do NoFap.
     
  4. LifeIsAmazing

    LifeIsAmazing Fapstronaut

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    If you are watching Porn and masturbating all the time (very frequently, 4+ times a week) you may have a "sex tolerance". This means that you need more extreme stuff to get a 100% erection. This "sex tolerance" may be called for PIED (porn induced erectile dysfunction). In this case NoFap will work by lowering the "sex tolerance" by not watching porn and masturbating. (My theory) (https://www.mdpi.com/2076-328X/6/3/17/htm evidence that abstinence from porn and masturbation may help you; look at "4. Conclusions and Recommendations" at the end of the site)

    I recommend you to test NoFap at least for a month to see how it affects you. If it doesn't work for you, you need to reach a Doctor because you may have a non-porn induced erectile dysfunction, that can be caused by multiple diseases.
     
  5. If you ask me it is a better idea to work on yourself and know your body better before you become intimate with somebody like that. Specially if it’s their first time. Don’t just do it to do it. Get all the crap out of the way so that it can be a really special experience for you both.Be patient and work through your issues make sure she understands what you were going through. It could mess her up for a while If she doesn’t really understand what’s going on.

    that said there’s plenty of ways to become intimate without going all the way. It’s a good idea to get to know her body too, well before you reach the point of having sex. Touching and exploring, letting her show you how to bring her to orgasm with hands and mouth is a great lesson for any man. The penis is not the center of the sex universe. Don’t get that twisted.
     

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