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22 year old who want to change himself so he can change the world

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by greatbuddy, Jun 24, 2020.

  1. Jun 24, 2020 #1
    greatbuddy

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    Hi everyone My name is Archit .I am 22 yr old currently college dropout and studying some financial exam called Chartered Accountancy .I started watching all these shit when I was 15 yr old .I was not aware about anything and one day ultimately night fall happened and after that I dont know how I started .I used to find any sexual content n youtube to porn sites and got some temporary pleasure ,did not know everything comes with some problem. I have some friends particularly James who told me Mastaburation is good for health and I started watching these shit since so long and i had no control over me and it damages my self confidence to talk to girls .So many girls gave smiles to me but I didnt have that confidence to talk to them .I was addicted to mastaburation ,then changed little bit but nothing changed permanently .TODAY I WAS WATCHING Sadguru video on youtube on HOW to save semen .THEN just reading some comments and find someone who was saying Frap had helped him and its been a year for him since he last did .SO quiet motivated to start this . I BELIEVE THAT there is no age to have control .I just 22 now .MY goal is for 21 days right now and will increase to infinity. .I am very grateful to the nofrap team for there support to me . I hope I will make full use of there hardwork and bring some change in my life to achieve my aim to help society as a whole .I hope I will make some friend here who help each other to get out of this shit and grateful to the god ,If i able to help someone .At last ,thanks for reading so long thread .I have conveyed my all feeling and emotions .
     
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  2. Jun 24, 2020 #2
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    Welcome to the community ;) all the best on your journey, if you have any questions or concerns please dont hesitate to ask us. Have a great day.
     
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  3. Jun 24, 2020 #3
    palindromo

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    Welcome
    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.

    If the first times a person relapse easly, it's okay.
    The streaks becomes even longer , day by day.
    Don't porn anymore, it's better to struggle and at the last to relapse than to look at porn.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines , erotic stories or erotic asmr.
    If you experience ''flatline'' and low libido , resist.
    > https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/

    An effective weapon to overcome urges and thoughts : mindfulness.
    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist

    - - - - -
    You will improve, dopamine is the neurotransmitter of will.
    Valute also to do a dopamine detox , it's useful
     
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  4. Jun 24, 2020 #4
    greatbuddy

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    I am really grateful that u replied and hope to make long lasting connections here .
     
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  5. Jun 24, 2020 #5
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    Hey Greatbuddy. Welcome to NoFap brother. You are doing yourself a good thing. Possibly the best thing you could do for yourself. Let's be heroes together and beat this. Wishing you the best brother.
     
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  6. Jun 24, 2020 #6
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    Brother we all are with you lets crack it control your mind and meditate.
     
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  7. Jun 25, 2020 #7
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    Hello there...
    Welcome to the community! :)

    By the way, don't you think that changing the whole damn world is too big of deal for one person?
     
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  8. Jun 25, 2020 #8
    greatbuddy

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    The personbelieve can change the world are the ones who do
    The persons who believes can change the world are the ones who do. Even u able to change 1%, your mission is successful
     
    greatbuddy, Jun 25, 2020
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  9. Jun 25, 2020 #9
    ush

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    hi! we are in same boat!!! well come to the community! i m in ur situation too and we are in same age ! so its happy to see new people are joining . i had found some tips that help us to get start on this journey ! so I m happy to share them with u!!!
     
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  10. Jun 25, 2020 #10
    greatbuddy

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    Good to hear that.I hope u will share your experience and enlighten me . Thanks for helping me
     
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  11. Jun 25, 2020 #11
    ush

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    hi buddy! its great to see new people join with us daily!
    i m happy to see about ur decision to reborn. u are unique than others in the society.
    As my previous experience, I had give up more than three times, because I didn't aware of how to rid over porn addiction, properly.

    here are some easy tips to follow up and overcome with ur urges.

    1. Check up this site daily! ( so when u checkup others posts, ur day counter , u will never able to giveup!)
    2. busy with urself with ur work, spend your leisure time with ur favorite hobby
    3. go for walk, either u can go for gym (that helps u to use ur sexual energy, so u don't have to use it for PMO)
    4. by my experience I suggest u to limit ur social media , cuz u will not go to porn sites again (never ever) , but sometimes social apps like Instagram popping out sexual contents that turns u on, so its better to limit them.
    5. find a friend from this site to share ur experiences , ur problems, ur goals, that may helps u to get motivate.
    6. there is a youtuber named as '***' watch his videos about nofap journey, these will explains u how to get rid over PMO, benefits and all!!


    this is not easy as it seems dude!!! because getting to success is not easy !!!
    but we should not give up!!!!

    Best of luck for you !
    i knew u completed ur 24 hours successfully!!
     
    ush, Jun 25, 2020
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  12. Jun 25, 2020 #12
    greatbuddy

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    Thanks completed day 1 without urges , feeling all over good and will follow all the important advices that u gave.
     
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