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are images of your gf just as bad as porn?? Please help

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ysl_tedy, Jun 28, 2020.

  1. Jun 28, 2020 #1
    Ysl_tedy

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    Im not really into porn so i dont think that i have a porn addiction bc currently ive had no problem giving it up like i dint even think about it ever tbh, but i feel like i have pied bc i couldnt get it up with my gf (worst feeling ever) but i did masturbate daily. After that experience i did some searching and found out about nofap and pied and thats where my journey all started. i started fapping to porn at around 13 to i think up until like a month or two ago, im currently 17 and giving up porn hasnt been a problem for me, i just dont care for it i think i only masturbated with porn for the feeling, ive been trying out this nofap thing and its been going great, i started taking cold showers, eating healthier, meditating for 10 minutes twice a day. so far ive had a 4 day streak and a 5 day streak however yesterday i edged and i ended my longest streak of 16 days to my gfs nudes and i dont feel like ive lost everything but i feel a lot of guilt, Nofap is probrobly be the hardest thing ive ever done no joke but i havent lost all hope as im determined to get better, but i just wanted to know if fapping to your gf/signifacnt others nudes had the same effect as actual porn or if its different in the sense that this is my gf and not 2 random peolpe having sex yunno?
     
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  2. Jun 28, 2020 #2
    sonic123rainbow

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    I think if you have been getting nudes from your girlfriend, that's great, but(and this is big but) if you are having sex with your girlfriend and you cannot get it up, then maybe you need to relax with your masturbation habits towards your gf's nudes, since that energy will then be converted into better connection with your girlfriend which will turn out for better relationship with her.

    I think nudes are the same as porn, it doesn't matter who they are coming from, but still they are from your gf so maybe use them with moderation.

    Here's a book I recommend for you it's "You are not your brain", this book basically gives you the tools to fight any urge on your life.
    I hope this helps you towards better tomorow.
     
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  3. Jun 28, 2020 #3
    Ysl_tedy

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    Got it. Thanks for the reply!!
     
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  4. Jun 28, 2020 #4
    TrueEarl

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    it good
     
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  5. Jun 29, 2020 #5
    Stupidbeginner

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    I think its performance anxiety
     
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  6. Jun 29, 2020 #6
    Prince6543

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    No not at all. Infact it's good because your brain will automatically get turned on when it will see your gf in real life because it will be used to that by then. But still it's better if you don't masturbate in the first place.
     
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  7. Jun 29, 2020 #7
    Stupidbeginner

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    Thats will not help if you have pied and performance anxiety
     
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  8. Jun 30, 2020 #8
    Prince6543

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    Probably
     
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