3rd Time Reboot: 30 Days Hard Mode

I find it easier to refrain when i get rid of the computer.

 

Well, whatever you may need to do to prevent yourself from fapping is good! The problem with the computer is internet of course, and the problem is that you can find triggers even if you are not searching for them !

So I guess it all boils down to one's will to control himself.

 

I couldn't agree more with Youth. This is, "much harder than you think it will be." You have to fight against a destructive behavior that you have been participating in for years. This will not be a quick process or a pain free process. But it will be worth every painful step and all of the sleepless nights. Have a well defined plan. Write it down if necessary. This can be done but it will take work and dedication.

 

Hi terminator1,

congrats on your 14 days ! Stay vigilant !
See ya !

 

would love to do that but need the use of internet other stuff. i would say try not to be on the computer as much. and be active outside

 

Hey odan three sixty,

how you doing ? 12 days ? How do you feel ?

Stay vigilant !

 

unfortunately i relapsed :/ but im not going to reset my progress bar. it didnt feel right tho, usually i would feel happy but i felt like taking a step back, im gonna try to stay away from my computer as much, thts the lesson for me

 

good idea it makes sense thanks 'theflash" lol

 

Over a year ago, I had the strong thought that I didn't want to fap anymore and then found that great video. It is very inspiring. Now I have fapped since then but have had nice progress overall.

 

My best advice to all newbies is to take it one day at a time. Quitting masturbation for 90 days seems impossible, and as such it probably is , but anybody can go without it for one day. So, just do one day, but do it 90 times. Promise yourself when you awaken each morning, "I will not masturbate today." Worry about tomorrow tomorrow.

In my experience, the urges are particularly strong for about three weeks, with several intermediate peaks. However, defying them and staying clean gives you a tremendous sense of accomplishment and boosts your strength. After three weeks, my urges gradually became manageable. Some men experience a definite period of flatline, but I haven't. Yesterday, was my Day 45, half way to my arbitrary 90-day goal. At this point, NoFap is pretty easy. I still have morning wood and light urges, but it's quite easy to stay strong and clean. I think I could go on forever like this if I so choose.

 

Hi odna360,

I'm so sad for you. I hope you will not put your arms down and I hope you'll have enough courage to start again (not over, again).

See ya !

 

Hi mv8652,

Nice thought but I'd still reckon that you be vigilant. One doesn't always to control himself, right ?

See ya !

 

yea i took 1 step back but gona take 5 step forward! dont give up on ur side too brotheer

 

my partner gave me a blowjob today and i gave her oral as well, i didnt masturbate or watch porn but i had an orgsam during the blowjob,is it wrong during rebooting?

 

good question, lets see what expert would say

 

ya i agree with you man, i shouldnt have done it ,i am feeling a strong urge already to masturbate but am resisting it.I ended up reading an eroctic story researching about this thing that happened to me,feeling bad since those stories do the same thing as porn