Oral sex without condom from an escort

thats probably the reason.

time and effort. still faster and easier to just call escort
than chase flaky girls especially in 2020...besides... far easier to fulfill fantasies this way.
You would never be able to get a threesome with 2 asian girls or a black lady or whatever makes you tingle... or at least it would be too much work.

its fast food, but sometimes you need that dopamine hit.
its a form of a drug you pick a girl from a catalogue, then go and see her usually its semi-legal or illegal... thats like buying drugs meeting a dealer.
you meet her and see her 1st time in your life then you know you will be having sex. its exciting on a level normal girls do not excite.

but its of course unhealthy.

but normal girls are , too

 

I would never go to a illegal one, but guess it depends on the county you live in if it is considered legal. Of course just getting it on with a very hot one it would be just go window shopping in the red light district in my city or just look up a private one on the internet. The window ones are just for a quicky, you pay and 15/20 min later you are out again, private ones would be at an hour. But it's not my thing I guess, I prefered sexclubs/cinema where normal women wanted it. Of course need to be lucky meeting the type of woman you like and sometimes it would take investing some time and effort also.

 

''you pay either way- whether in your time&effort or currency''

 

In all likelihood you are ok mate. I've had plenty of blowjobs without condoms from escorts, and never contracted anything. That's not to say that you can't, but just trying to reassure you that you are most likely ok. But as the rest have said, be sure to get a test as it's just sensible and responsible practice.

 

Brother, you don't need hookers now, go out there and look for one single girl that would help you, if possible marry her. But escorts are not good decision.

 

marrying a woman in modern times is a big, big mistake
women are far too spoiled now and the law is on their side.
men gain nothing.

EDIT: I would love for this to not be true, this is simply my observation.