Need advice

Go to the brothel if you really want to, if its just your brain tricking you to relapse, dont. You will ruin your streak and lose a lot of money. If you go to the brothel you probably will be dissapointed or be so ashamed of yourself you wont go there again. To check if your PIED is cured just M a bit in the shower or something and when your D gets hard put the shower cold so you wont relapse.

 

I think you're on the right track to recovery, every day away from porn is already progress in my opinion. I don't necessarily advice going to a brothel, but your mind is now looking for human connection since you mentioned you're not looking for porn anymore, or it might be because your mind keeps thinking that prostitution is legal there so it might be alright to test it there.

I agree with the previous comment about jerking off a little, just without porn. You are aware that you are in your flat line so it's best if you do your best not to disturb that process by going to a brothel just to test if you can get hard, it's just not worth the risk and money.

 

Congratulation for your streak and I wish you all the best in your recovery. Today I ended my streak of nofap ( 90 days porn free and 1 month hard mode) I will tell you why I relapsed, I started the cycle of rewiring so I met 2 girls in My mind I was looking to see if Im recoverd when I realised that its not the case unfortunately I relapsed I tried to see if my erection quality is better now with porn it was not and I was unable to control myself not to ejaculate and now I just took a shower different ideas are going on in my Mind I dont know what to do.. I dont want this thing happend to You so take a morality.

 

I have to add that if you already in and you did a streak of 56 days dont rush and wait till you make it 120 days at least to give nofap a real attempt.

 

I would make my goal recovering from addiction to porn. And going to a prostitute would not be a healthy substitute.

My advice to cure your PIED is that you find a purpose for your life that is greater than yourself, one that is of benefit to others, and then serve that purpose with your whole being.

That may not seem to have anything to do with your inability to get an erection, but the reason you have that problem is due to the fact that you have been entirely focused on pleasing yourself. The PIED is just the physical manifestation.

And please know that I'm not saying this to judge. I've had notions of going to massage parlors, strip clubs, and porn shops. And I will rationalize to myself why it isn't wrong, a problem, or that I need to prove something to myself. It is just the addiction getting desperate.

So, instead, transcend the self. It will bring you to authentic joy instead momentary and depleting gratification.