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Sexual addiction / Cheating

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Vizion, Jul 15, 2020.

  1. Jul 15, 2020 #1
    Vizion

    Vizion New Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone,

    I'm pretty new to this and don't know what to do or who exactly to talk to for support so I wanted to try this platform. Currently 26 yr old and struggling mainly with sex addiction which I feel has evolved from porn addiction. Masturbating did not feel the same and have been looking at seeing escorts for relief. I try to fight the urge but it is difficult and I'm afraid to go to others for help, especially since I am in a relationship.

    I told myself tonight is the start of this journey of NoFap and actually trying to recommit myself to relationship because my partner deserves that. Just wanted to know any advice on how to move forward and tips on being able to aid in this process. So far I told myself I would be logging and journal how I feel daily, rather than kept my thoughts or urges to myself.

    Thanks in advance
     
    Vizion, Jul 15, 2020
    Vizion, Jul 15, 2020
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  2. Jul 16, 2020 #2
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    Hey man welcome to the forum first of all.
    There's plenty of wonderful posts and people ready to help you.
    Reading what you wrote I think that you might get help in the section "problematic sexual behavior" for escorts problems.
    And "rebooting in a relationship" for your relationship.
    The best of luck.
     
    Deleted Account, Jul 16, 2020
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  3. Jul 16, 2020 #3
    need4realchg

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    welcome buddy. I have a forum for sex addicts. There are a small amount of us here in NoFap. But you can break free.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/escort-challenge.257433/page-20
     
    need4realchg, Jul 16, 2020
    need4realchg, Jul 16, 2020
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  4. Jul 16, 2020 #4
    One Eyed Owl

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    Welcome to Nofap!!!
     
    One Eyed Owl, Jul 16, 2020
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  5. Dec 10, 2020 #5
    Celtíbero98

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    Hey, I hope you're doing better now. Im actually having the same issue you're having (pardon my english, not native)
    Im really into fucking other women. Nothing weird, just consented casual sex with tinder dates. the problem is that I actually have a girlfriend that im cheating on, and its problematic bc I feel no regret after all these lies.
    I feel nothing towards all these girls and I feel so much love for my girlfriend, that I've come up to the idea that I don't find sex as something romantic and personal, but something that I can just do with whoever turns me on. I need to see sex in a different way to stop cheating on my girlfriend and id like to see your thoughts on these as well guys
     
    Celtíbero98, Dec 10, 2020
    Celtíbero98, Dec 10, 2020
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