Does Porn makes girls expect for bigger cocks?

Not every girl is a pornstar though. Even the smallest of tools can be useful.

 

Porn is piles of lies,many women understand this. Most people have average size. Black people to Asian people. Not such difference as data or porn shows

 

It's kind of weird, but in a way, yes. It's what you're constantly exposed to. I think it's kind of like how guys have these expectations about girls. We have to compete with porn stars and photoshop. guys have to compete with these roided up dudes with big dicks. It doesn't reflect reality, everything is hypersexualized.

 

Good to know women prespective. You are right everything is hypersexualized.

 

Lol I don't compete with anything and am a happy man.
The first time ever I heard someone saying that guys "have to compete" with big penises hah.

 

That's the thing, I don't like it in actual sex. Big dicks are really uncomfortable and sometimes just flat out painful.

 

I mean lol. I know that people in high school, especially guys, have this hype about big penises because reasons.
But now I learn that adult men are also very concerned about that and want to have as big penises as possible.
Like why? Don't they know what sex is meant to be about?

 

Ekirnren what's with the lies; and the fake friendship this site isn't about that, this site is about people who are seeking help, and willing to help others, overcome their pmo addiction. It's not, as I said, coaxing others into a false sense of friendship and, understanding and then drop them. Personally I don't believe you belong here, this site is not for you and you're certainly not here for anyone's benefit. That you pretend to befriend other's just to shoot them down that's the lowest act especailly here, where people genuinely need consolation and support in a very dibilitating part of life. What you did to me was not right, not by any means.

 

What did she do?

 

I'll leave up to her, to be fair she needs to appologise to me but if she wants to escalate it by making it public thats her choice but her apology to me without her making a statement is sufficient

 

Not really. Except for some lusty girls that can take a black cock just because it is big

 

part of a previous post I made:
You shouldn't be obsessed by it, very few men have big dicks, like 1 in 89 have 20cm/8inch and bigger ones the odds are way less, so all those other men with normal and less satisfy their girlfrieds/husband just fine, or if you want think the other way around most normal girls who had a few relationships most likely never had a big one anyway.
I have seen a documentary where the interview 10 pornactresses and 9 out of 10 prefered normal and are even okay with smaller, they find it more important how they are treated, don't forget good sex is also forplay (and afterplay). So these actresses act in movies mostly with the big ones but in real live they are more then okay with normal size.
You can just google it youself what pornstars find about big dick by far they don't care.

In fact, a woman has so few nerve endings inside the vaginal canal compared to the exterior of her girl bits that you could make her come with just the smallest tip of your finger and absolutely no penetration whatsoever. Meanwhile, attention is diverted away from the qualities that a worthy partner actually should have.

And yes big dicks can hurt women, with my friend I always have to be careful not to go deep as it hurts her and she has had many sexpartners and she also prefers smaller or at least know how to use it without hurting her (shallower penetration).

Maybe girls that watch porn but never experience a big dick might have fantasies about them but if they do experience them most don't find it anything special, at least that is what my friend told me. It's just visual and mentally but not so much in the physical use.

 

This is a reality that often gets missed.
Still, I imagine the big ones must be more arousing to look at and, with practice, become less painful during actual sex.
I’ve heard that most women prefer men to be slightly above average. Would you agree?
As someone who’s looked at porn, how would you react to someone who is smaller than average?

I’m asking for a friend

 

A dude in some other post was actually worried about his size. And then there was a comment: "Don't worry much about it, even the average vagina is just 4 inches"

 

I don't know about penis size but I know sexual compatibility is important in a relationship. 95% of the time my wife have sex, she has an orgasm before I do. When we first met, she told me her ex was a little bigger than me. It was a blow to my ego at first but when I made her cum, I didn't care anymore. As long as the sexual compatibility is there, everything will fall into place. Biology matters.

 

Yes, that little factoid gets thrown around a lot during discussions of penis size, though I've often heard 3 inches.
But . . . that describes the vagina in its relaxed state. When aroused, a woman's vagina is approximately 6 inches deep.
Some other important anatomical considerations:

• Women do not have a lot of sensitivity deep in their vagina. Most of the nerve endings are around the opening. This is why it is often said that girth matters more than length.
• Also note that women have the highest concentration of nerve endings in the clitoris. This is why may women do not orgasm during intercourse (the clitoris is not stimulated) and why foreplay is so important.
• A penis usually needs to be 6 inches or longer to hit the cervix. Some women can achieve orgasm from this sensation (and might be inclined to seek out men with large penises for this reason) but many find it uncomfortable and some find it downright painful.

If I had to choose, I would say a big (but not huge) penis is the best size to be.
Average size would be a close second . . .
But, since I have a small one, I just need to work with what I have and be grateful that I will never have to worry about hurting a girl by hitting her cervix.

 

The general consensus based on what I've read over the years is that women mostly seem to prefer slightly bigger than average and girth takes more precedence over length in most aspects. Most of the time women get off on the foreplay, more specifically oral sex than anything else. The chances of you making her orgasm through sex is really low unless you or her are focusing on her bean during penetration.

 

You're right. And mine's just 13 cm (erect) and I'm usually looking for things to increase girth coz that's below average for me. Although I can last long enough for most women, I still feel like I gotta work on my girth. tbh I don't feel any shame in working on my wood coz that just helps me with my confidence. Given the very promising return to my erections (post 56 days), I think I'll be able to make progress on the above things if I just work on'em consistently. Any recommendations for me?

 

As long as the penis is a working penis most women will take it, over a 10-12 inch one that doesn’t, who cares about size? Just be glad you have a penis and it works, there are guys out there who have non functioning micro penis’ or lost their penis to a freak accident, plus most women can’t tell the accurate size...i’ve had women think i have a very large penis when in reality it’s 6.5-7” max.