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MAINTAINING ERECTION ISSUES

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by oldsoul09, Jul 10, 2020.

  1. oldsoul09

    oldsoul09 Fapstronaut

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    HELLO GUYZ,

    HOPE YOU DOING FINE.
    I WANTED TO ASK ANYONE WHO HAS DONE A HARD MODE OR JUST WHO ARE PRETTY MUCH OFF PMO AND HAVE REAL SEX, CAN YOU MAINTAING A HEALTHY ERECTION.OR THE DICK JUST GOES LIMP EVENTUALLY AFTER SOMETIME.THEN IT JUST BECOME DIFFICULT TO HAVE SEX IN SOME OTHER POSITIONS BECAUSE OF 60-70% ERECTIONS.

    WHAT IS THIS PROBLEM?
    1.HAS ANYONE DONE KEGALS TO ADDRESS THE ABOVE? iF YES THE PLEASE SHARE THE EXPERIENCE.
    2. IS IT NECESSARY TO HAVE A BLOWJOB TO GET IT ERECT OR SIMPLY BY LOOKING OR A TOUCH HJ CAN GET IT ERECT?

    PLEASE PROVIDE A REVIEW OF YOUR EXPERIENCES ESPECIALLY ON KEGAL.IT WOULD BE EXREMELY BENEFICIAL FOR ALL OF US.

    GOD BLESS
     
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  2. Might_Stag_Beetle

    Might_Stag_Beetle Fapstronaut

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    I've had the issue. I would only stay hard during missionary. Any other position would make me soft or limp.
    I have no answer or remedy. I remember when I was a teen, I would get super erections, stiff, and they long. The way Iook at it, i had those erections without doing kegels, taking cold showers, or any other nofap remedy. I was barely in shape.
    I guess the best remedy is abstinence from sexual stimulation. Time will heal you and return you to your normal state
     
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  3. oldsoul09

    oldsoul09 Fapstronaut

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    A big thank you @Might_Stag_Beetle bro on behalf of all the brothers.
    This info is gold....So bro now u r healed ... I mean can u get those string erections now or its under progress??
     
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  4. Might_Stag_Beetle

    Might_Stag_Beetle Fapstronaut

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    No sir I am not healed. I've been watching porn since I was 15, I'm currently 34. I'm currently on day 110 of nofap, and my body and mind is healing. My penis is longer and fuller. I've had 2 wet dreams, and I woke up with full boners after those wet dreams. My think is time and being porn free will heal you. It takes time.
    Prior to porn we didn't do kegels, take cold showers, or any other nofap remedy. We were just porn free. Time and being porn free will heal us all.
     
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  5. oldsoul09

    oldsoul09 Fapstronaut

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    Thnk you Sir, for sharing this valuable information.
    Its my 15th day of NoFap and wish to reach your feet.
    Your support inspires me.!!
     
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  6. D23

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    I’ll pray for your healing as god gives us second chances
     
  7. Might_Stag_Beetle

    Might_Stag_Beetle Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. I wish the same
     
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    Thank you bro
     
  9. heretoheal

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    In my experience, with 60 days of NoFap so far, I've had several sexual encounters and I'm still struggling with keeping an erection. I can only keep if I have sex doggie style, sometimes missionary. And what gives me an erection is licking a body part, I don't get if I get oral sex or a hand job. So I guess I still have a form of ED, it's just that I quit porn for good and now I'm able to (sort of) get stimulated through body sensations, but I feel I'm not completely healed as you may notice.
     
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  10. Might_Stag_Beetle

    Might_Stag_Beetle Fapstronaut

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    Could be that your not healed completely. Only certain things stimulate you.
    If your like me, then you wanna have full erections no matter the position. And with handjobs and blowjobs.
    Hell, as a teen I use to get super woody's from touching titties alone. I wanna be that guy again.
     
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  11. D23

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    I have what the internet has coined hard flaccid. Honestly my errections seem better some days and worse on others. I’ve yet to have sex w a women in awhile and just by looking at a women I was able to get it up.
    Trying to stay away from porn isn’t easy when your also battling some form of Ed. Be grateful your on a path to healing wish I was in your shoes
     
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  12. oldsoul09

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    thnks guyz for the feedback...this was needed. I have personnaly felt true brtherwood from you guyz .
    I mean it...its like there was no one ..even papa couldnt understand even if I had told him my problem. I dont know I was just too embarrased to speak about this problem. But with guyz things have been simpler.

    Truly thank you brothers ..

    Today I have completed 18 days of NoFap PMO. The main change and massive change is the mental one...more and more as days pass I have noticed what this world has come too....seriously man no woman or man needs to be treated the way its done in porn....Disgusting.

    God give us strength for we have set on this path of recovery.

    Please bless my brothers ...give them happiness for they are your children and bless us god.
     
  13. enjoypeter

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    Had the same exact issue. Dont do kegals but the opposite. Relax pelvic floor. Just search YouTube videos
     
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  14. oldsoul09

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    Ok sir, ill try this out.

    Been clean for 25 days now...but still feel I havent healed as its too early.
    Kegals have benefitted me but I have to try the pelvic floor.
    I think my pelvic floor is preety fucked up too as Im quit lean and hence lacked muscles in the pelvic area.Need to work out the pelvic area

    Thnks again man...appreciate ur feedback...!!
     

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