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Please help me

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Laiten, Jul 18, 2020.

  1. Jul 18, 2020 #1
    Laiten

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    I started before few threads about that topic that iam struggling about me sexual orientation.I started to test me fap on gay porn or gay fantasies to know am i want gay sex but its really hard and really i tryed a lots of to make me hot to gay thought but i feel nothing.Guys i want to understand my sexual orientation.Before this happened i had not any thoughts about my orientation.I watched different types of gay porn but dont got an correctly arousal it was a small feeling.I want love an human but i know before that happened i fall in love in different girls.Now i notice every single good looking man.The Gay community said to me that iam in denial and iam accepted it but i cant imagine have sexual contact with a man.Last week i dont fap about 5 days and all feelings thoughts about man gone.Every girl i saw i got an full erection.I dont know muscles and a dick in front of me isnt for me.I want only an correctly answer to get an information about my sexuality.I dont understand one thing.Why i got an erection from transwoman porn where i like active ?I cant see a guy sucking a dick or fucked by a transwoman its looks funny.How can i discover my sexual orientation?Everyday the same question it makes me sick.The second problem is i need dirty shit like piss porn or brutal gangbang or deep throat.If i watch vanille porn or lesbian my orgasm is really really low.Its not to intensive.
     
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  2. Jul 18, 2020 #2
    verbeek75

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    You already gave the answer to your own question, you are straight. You are just addicted to porn and these doubts can happen, they call it HOCD.
    The fact that you need dirty shit to orgasm really means you are addicted. The sooner you stop the better to recover faster.
    Stop watching any porn and your doubts should solve itself within a few months. And absolutely never test fapping to porn, that is an absolute no to recover from this crap. It's the worst thing you can do.
     
    verbeek75, Jul 18, 2020
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  3. Jul 18, 2020 #3
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    Porn addiction is like any drug addiction... You need stronger sh!t than yesterday, every single damn time.

    Nobody wins at the end of the day. There's only one way. Walk away and you'll get better.
     
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  4. Jul 18, 2020 #4
    Laiten

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    But one question why i get this feeling like iam gay what it happened with my hormones ?Last time i notice really all man and suddenly i can understand why girls love them.
     
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  5. Jul 18, 2020 #5
    Prince6543

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    Emasculinity
     
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  6. Jul 18, 2020 #6
    Prince6543

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    Don't trust everyone so easily. If you don't enjoy gay porn, them you're not gay, neither are you bisexual. It's that simple
     
    Prince6543, Jul 18, 2020
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  7. Jul 18, 2020 #7
    Prince6543

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    And figuring out why girls might like that guy is not your job. My friends tells me everytime. EVERY GUY IS AN ASSHOLE. See them like that only. Change your perspective
     
    Prince6543, Jul 18, 2020
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  8. Jul 19, 2020 #8
    MrAlkali

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    I stopped watching porn a month and a half ago and these gay thoughts are still here and i still think i love men, i can hardly see a future with a woman but before this i loved women so much but im only 15
     
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  9. Jul 19, 2020 #9
    REBOOT PEPITO

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    Hello bro,
    First things first, i think you should stop watching porn from now. Everyone addited to porn (including me) are looking for fetiches and weird stuff to fill our dirty minds with novelty.
    Once you had recovered from porn you will look at the world with different eyes and you will know your orientation for the people you are atracted in real life, not genitals.
    Hope it helps.
     
    REBOOT PEPITO, Jul 19, 2020
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  10. Jul 19, 2020 #10
    Prince6543

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    Stop thinking about it. It won't do any good
     
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  11. Jul 19, 2020 #11
    MrAlkali

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    how long would this take though
     
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  12. Jul 20, 2020 #12
    REBOOT PEPITO

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    depends on how strong your addiction is, around 90 days you should feel much better but may be it is better to say that one year for all cases.
    Try different activities and install a porn blocker, it helps a lot.
    Good luck in your strike.
     
    REBOOT PEPITO, Jul 20, 2020
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  13. Jul 21, 2020 #13
    Fallacious D

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    Just chill and take a break from PMO. Gay, straight, none of it matters.
     
    Fallacious D, Jul 21, 2020
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  14. Jul 21, 2020 #14
    Laiten

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    Man its really difficult to give up to masturbate.If i dont watch porn im really hot to any girls.Its really hard to understand why iam doing that.I switch from straight to gay porn sometimes dont go away.I believe a straight man is directly no mor aroused when he switched from straight to gay porn.
     
    Laiten, Jul 21, 2020
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