I'm going back to Porn (but only pictures)

I'm doing the exact contrary; I was watching porn and not masturbating, and I'm back to masturbating but I quit watching porn...

 

"Like they’ll start enlarging, " why you're saying no then.

Honestly fuck that chastity shit that they want you on.
If you can't get laid you should MO. Like what the fuck its only natural. If you can balance it out and just masturbate once in a while is it really this bad?

once I get past 6 days hardmode I have semen leaking after I take a piss or shit.

 

Everyone's different. It took me 78 days before having a wet dream.

 

Define "problem" . what if I don't want to get laid?

Me for example. I don't chase tail or go on dates. I just don't care about it right now.


Also, I doubt that the addictive part of "PMO" is "MO" and not "P".

 

You’ll not be able to feed a baby. They aren’t “Boobs” in a complete sense.

 

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What do you think was born first: having multiple partners or watching porn? Obviously the first one.

Having multiple partner can be part of a perfectly healty sexual life just like having one stable relationship.

 

Honestly man, if you haven't been able to find a partner in the last 3 years of abstinence there's obviously something not working.

I mean, i've gone 5 years without having sex, but when i started nofap i was so horny and driven that i found a few women to hang out in a time of a few weeks.

You should seek for some help or hit the gym, if you're particoularly unactrattive.

 

Cave paintings were no way comparable to todays porn. In fact, following your argument, we all shall deduce that porn is a healty aspect of sexual life, since man has been doing it since he's on heart.

On the other side, your judgmental view of different ways of living a different kind of sexual life (probably driven by highly limiting religious beliefs) puts you in the perfect condition to fail all over again.

And, just for some context, i am in a long term stable relationship, i do have only 1 partner.

 

So man, if you weren't able to find a sexual partner for over 3 years despite being good looking and in total abstinence there's obviously some other things going on.

You should seek for some professional help or for some seduction classes. I know it sound bad but i think a good course could teach you a method, and that it way better then going unprepared every time.

 

We know that obsessive, addictive behaviours represent an extreme. Reading this thread reminds me how important it is not to replace one extreme with another. Replacing one obsession with another is not "recovery", nor even an improvement. The goal should be balanced, healthy life, not reactionary fanaticism.

 

I do think no porn superpowers are BS too, but abstinence is a real thing and creates some real drive. I felt it on my own skin: it's not a coincidence that i started having sex again after 5 years only when i quitted masturbation. Like everything, the answer is in your body and mind. If the body is not treated how it should the system can not work.

It's not about putting a mask, is about learning the right way to express themself and a good mindset. And at the end to internalize thoose behavioural habits.

I can see a lot of similarities here with sex: someone may think it must be perfectly instinctive and natural, but i can 100% assure you that when i started studying how to built some sexual flow with foreplay, what to do first and what to do later, how stimulatr the right spots my sexual life changed drastically.

 

WHY WOULD U EVEN THINK ABOUT WATCHING PORN??? U WERE 3 YEARS FREE! U SHOULD HAVE LOOKED FORWARD AND CONTINUED UR LIFE?!

 

Well I have been doing pmo for only 2 years, I think the 5 months that I stopped it might actually rewired my brain, I haven't had any urges for idk 15 days